let me spell this out for you: She has indicated that she does NOT want contact with you. End of Story.
==== You have indicated that you are of palestinian origin.
Allow me to be so bold as to make a few assumptions.
They are: 1.) You were either born there or you are from the Palestinian diaspora. (deduced from your sentence structure & grammar + your lack of understanding how men & women interact here in the West). 2.) You are an average member of that group, meaning that you are neither fully Westernized (else you'd have a better understanding of Western social cues), nor are you fully 'Jihadi' (else you probably wouldn't be expressing interest in a Western girl, nor would you likely be in NYC) 3.) I'm hoping that I can draw relevant conclusions about your motivations, behaviours and actions based upon other men from similar backgrounds (although most of those backgrounds are Lebanese, Algerian, Tunisian, Moroccan, Iraqi, Iranian and Pakistani.). If anything, I will assume that the Palestinian background (occupied territory, warzone, displaced persons without a state etc) that has been driven to a reactionary state means that you are likely more conservative than the people that I know.
====== you've acknowledged that your parents/people are strict... this means that the strategies that you are familiar to 'meet' women are adapted to that.
Guess what? in the USA it's not like that. Here, if a woman says NO, for whatever reason, it means NO. Being persistent will not change the NO to a maybe or a yes. Being persistent is called harassment or stalking and will result in criminal charges and likely a restraining order.
Might I point out that in the current political climate, as person of your ethnicity should probably be following the laws of the land to the letter?
Might I also add that LJ can be subpoena'd for records of posts and comments that can be used as evidence in court?
Glad you're with me on this.
To reiterate, you've fucked up. Stop trying to contact her by any means, you are only making things worse.
Take it as a lesson and move on.
Might I suggest learning how to talk to and be friends with American men, or older women whom do not interest you as 'something else' or fellow Muslims and Arabs that have been in the West long enough to 'fit in'? or other foreign students? This way you'll hopefully learn American social cues and maybe overcome that shyness.
If you go to university or college, join some clubs/social organizations to: 1.) get out and learn to interact with people 2.) overcome your shyness & 3.) meet new people that *might* be interested in you.
Hey now. Annoying people is annoying people regardless of culture, especially online. Granted this hawk guy is behaving like a putz, but why drag Origin into it?
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Date: 2005-05-04 04:29 pm (UTC)let me spell this out for you:
She has indicated that she does NOT want contact with you.
End of Story.
====
You have indicated that you are of palestinian origin.
Allow me to be so bold as to make a few assumptions.
They are:
1.) You were either born there or you are from the Palestinian diaspora.
(deduced from your sentence structure & grammar + your lack of understanding how men & women interact here in the West).
2.) You are an average member of that group, meaning that you are neither fully Westernized (else you'd have a better understanding of Western social cues), nor are you fully 'Jihadi' (else you probably wouldn't be expressing interest in a Western girl, nor would you likely be in NYC)
3.) I'm hoping that I can draw relevant conclusions about your motivations, behaviours and actions based upon other men from similar backgrounds (although most of those backgrounds are Lebanese, Algerian, Tunisian, Moroccan, Iraqi, Iranian and Pakistani.). If anything, I will assume that the Palestinian background (occupied territory, warzone, displaced persons without a state etc) that has been driven to a reactionary state means that you are likely more conservative than the people that I know.
======
you've acknowledged that your parents/people are strict... this means that the strategies that you are familiar to 'meet' women are adapted to that.
Guess what? in the USA it's not like that. Here, if a woman says NO, for whatever reason, it means NO. Being persistent will not change the NO to a maybe or a yes. Being persistent is called harassment or stalking and will result in criminal charges and likely a restraining order.
Might I point out that in the current political climate, as person of your ethnicity should probably be following the laws of the land to the letter?
Might I also add that LJ can be subpoena'd for records of posts and comments that can be used as evidence in court?
Glad you're with me on this.
To reiterate, you've fucked up. Stop trying to contact her by any means, you are only making things worse.
Take it as a lesson and move on.
Might I suggest learning how to talk to and be friends with American men, or older women whom do not interest you as 'something else' or fellow Muslims and Arabs that have been in the West long enough to 'fit in'? or other foreign students? This way you'll hopefully learn American social cues and maybe overcome that shyness.
If you go to university or college, join some clubs/social organizations to: 1.) get out and learn to interact with people 2.) overcome your shyness & 3.) meet new people that *might* be interested in you.
Good luck and please leave our
Thank you.
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Date: 2005-05-04 07:14 pm (UTC)