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conulyOddly, this article doesn't much touch on the fact that the gender essentialism of many of these cakes is damaging for everybody. Pink or blue is one thing, but determining your unborn child's hobbies and interests based on their private parts is just weird.
When people who post their videos and photos of gender-reveal parties on Instagram accidentally tag the Gender Reveal podcast, Mx. Woodstock sometimes uses it as an opportunity to provide a little education. “I might say, ‘This is a convenient time to remind you that the genitals of your baby don’t determine the baby’s gender.’”
The poster usually removes the tag and blocks the podcast’s account.
LOL, yeah, I bet they do.
From the comments: I guess today some would have us bring up our children with no gender and just "let the child decide" at some point? I guess genital difference would be treated like blue or brown eyes, blond or dark hair.
I mean, yeah, that sounds good to me? What exactly are you imagining as the alternative here? Intoning "YOU ARE A BOY. YOU HAVE A PENIS. YOU MUST LIKE FOOTBALL. BALLET IS GROSS. DON'T BE A SISSY" every night?
Also, for everybody reading along at home: Yes, reveal is a noun. It has been used as an English-language noun with the present meaning since at least the 1600s. Nouns and verbs in English are pretty flexible anyway, but this has long precedent. Look it up.
Edit: Bonus comic repost!
When people who post their videos and photos of gender-reveal parties on Instagram accidentally tag the Gender Reveal podcast, Mx. Woodstock sometimes uses it as an opportunity to provide a little education. “I might say, ‘This is a convenient time to remind you that the genitals of your baby don’t determine the baby’s gender.’”
The poster usually removes the tag and blocks the podcast’s account.
LOL, yeah, I bet they do.
From the comments: I guess today some would have us bring up our children with no gender and just "let the child decide" at some point? I guess genital difference would be treated like blue or brown eyes, blond or dark hair.
I mean, yeah, that sounds good to me? What exactly are you imagining as the alternative here? Intoning "YOU ARE A BOY. YOU HAVE A PENIS. YOU MUST LIKE FOOTBALL. BALLET IS GROSS. DON'T BE A SISSY" every night?
Also, for everybody reading along at home: Yes, reveal is a noun. It has been used as an English-language noun with the present meaning since at least the 1600s. Nouns and verbs in English are pretty flexible anyway, but this has long precedent. Look it up.
Edit: Bonus comic repost!
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Date: 2019-06-20 02:15 am (UTC)That sounds like such a great idea for ACTUAL toys though. Like, what if we did that for real? How rad would that be?
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Date: 2019-06-20 02:42 am (UTC)This isn't the study, but it is a good read and mentions some of the things I've read in the past. https://www.thestar.com/news/world/2017/12/14/why-toys-are-more-divided-by-gender-than-ever-before.html
Okay, I've hit a clog because apparently Bronies are a thing in the Marine Corps. I didn't know that. But basically the whole set up material in the study suggested that they'd be great people to be toy buyers.
However, I can say that the modder community exists, and you can probably find someone that can source a suitable base and repaint and detail you a Vampire Pony.
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Date: 2019-06-20 01:15 pm (UTC)