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conulythe responsibilities adoptive parents have to maintain some sort of connection to the child's natal culture, however small. We were specifically talking about interracial adoption, so this person made what he thought was a good point, bringing up what if a (white) American couple adopted a child from Russia? The child would look like them and would not "look" Russian, so....
There were two ways to go with this. I chose to respond to his point and stay on-topic, but ever since, for the past three weeks, I've had a nagging desire for a do-over, to try out the other option - namely, to tell him, quite honestly, that my mother has been stopped on multiple occasions by strangers with no other desire than to inform her that she has "a Russian face" (and on one occasion by strangers who wanted to ask her directions in Russian, presumably because of her Russian face.)
She is half Russian. Or half Russian-ish, anyway, we're not sure exactly where her father's family comes from but it's somewhere in or adjacent to Tsarist Russia.
That answer would not have gone anywhere useful, and it would've been unnecessarily rude to somebody who didn't deserve it... but I still kinda wish I'd said it.
And if you're asking what a connection to that side of her heritage would bring her, she might have been able to respond to those tourists if she'd spoken Russian. She likes speaking to French-speaking tourists and immigrants, after all, and she likes to watch French-language TV. Speaking of which, are there any streaming services that focus on TV and movies from Francophone countries? France okay but not preferred over other nations.
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There were two ways to go with this. I chose to respond to his point and stay on-topic, but ever since, for the past three weeks, I've had a nagging desire for a do-over, to try out the other option - namely, to tell him, quite honestly, that my mother has been stopped on multiple occasions by strangers with no other desire than to inform her that she has "a Russian face" (and on one occasion by strangers who wanted to ask her directions in Russian, presumably because of her Russian face.)
She is half Russian. Or half Russian-ish, anyway, we're not sure exactly where her father's family comes from but it's somewhere in or adjacent to Tsarist Russia.
That answer would not have gone anywhere useful, and it would've been unnecessarily rude to somebody who didn't deserve it... but I still kinda wish I'd said it.
And if you're asking what a connection to that side of her heritage would bring her, she might have been able to respond to those tourists if she'd spoken Russian. She likes speaking to French-speaking tourists and immigrants, after all, and she likes to watch French-language TV. Speaking of which, are there any streaming services that focus on TV and movies from Francophone countries? France okay but not preferred over other nations.
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Watch an Amazing Time-Lapse of Growing Mushrooms
A Glass Floor in a New Dublin Grocery Opens a Window to Medieval Viking History
Elections in Colonial America Were Huge, Booze-Fueled Parties
End gerrymandering? Here’s a radical solution (Yes, but vertical map or horizontal? Maybe we switch it up after every census just for kicks.)
Why Left-Handed Quarterbacks Are So Rare (Admittedly I don't know much about the sportsball, but it seems to me that while one lefty on a team might be a mild hassle, carefully fielding an entirely left-handed team could be a sneak advantage - or at least a novelty! I'd root for them.)
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The Hyper-Regional Chippy Traditions of Britain and Ireland
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A Canadian study gave $7,500 to homeless people. Here’s how they spent it.
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Weary from political strife and a pandemic, some Americans are fleeing the country
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To teach my sick husband how to eat again, I turned to 19th-century recipes for bone broths, gruels, and custards
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William O’Brien was a well-heeled doctor with a thriving Philadelphia medical practice. He was also at the center of a massive painkiller supply chain run by an outlaw biker gang.
How a C.I.A. Coverup Targeted a Whistle-blower
He waited 512 days behind bars for his day in court. It never came ("Swift and speedy" my ass.)
Kentucky State Police quoted Hitler and Robert E. Lee, and encouraged cadets to be ‘ruthless’ in a training program (Look at the materials. I don't care who they're quoting, these attitudes they're instilling are not useful.)
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