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Apr. 27th, 2011 09:05 am
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A quick run-down of some of the comments here....

Oh, I was soooo upset, my school gives out free food on weekends to poor families, and once when school was closed for the snow they sent out text messages and gave the food out anyway, and I can't believe these people can afford cell phones but not food, and they can come in for handouts but not school! LOL!

1. It's not as though the parents make the decision to close schools, you twit. In fact, I bet a lot of them were upset that they had to take an unpaid day off of work to stay with their kids, or else they had to scramble to find childcare because they couldn't take the day off.

2. If you don't make many calls, cell phones can be cheaper than landlines. And if you have to pick just one or the other, it makes sense to go with cell phones, especially if you're looking for work, because you can get that "Come in for an interview!" call wherever you are.

3. Also, you may be eligible for a free cell phone for just this reason.

Oh, gosh, if I only had $100 to spend for the month, you can bet that feeding my kid would be my priority!

Well, goody for you. Meanwhile, if you get kicked out because you didn't pay the rent, or you don't get that new job because you don't have a phone to answer calls, I hope you still have that $100 next month.

I mean, if I had only $100, and I had to feed kids and handle every other bill that had to be paid, yeah, I'd take advantage of free options here. Because I think there are a LOT of things kids need. Like a roof over their head, running water, heat, and clothes that fit.

These kids would be better off hungry than eating food that's been near plastic.

You're a loon. That is all.

These breakfasts suck! I'm going to talk to you about my wonderful breakfast! Why can't the schools serve my wonderful breakfast instead???

Because... we don't want... to pay more taxes to afford this? Or was that a rhetorical question?

This breakfast is unhealthy.

No argument here.

OMG, what sort of person has kids if they can't feed them? It never occurred to me that people might do that!

1. The sort of person who can't afford birth control.
2. The sort of person who doesn't realize how tight their budget is going to be after children.
3. The sort of person who realizes they'll never have much money, and wants kids anyway. Admittedly not the choice I'd make, but I'm not quite comfortable with telling people not to have kids.
4. Most commonly, the sort of person who could afford to feed their kids, and now can't. Apparently, in this person's perfect world, nobody ever loses their job or suffers catastrophic medical bills or loses their home to some sort of disaster.

Wow, can't they buy $25 worth of rolled oats? In bulk at Walmart, that's 25 pounds! Unless it's a lot to carry home on the bus...

Or unless they don't have $25 upfront, and have to pay twice as much (or more) over the course of several months instead, or unless their kids don't like oatmeal but will eat school breakfast (again, not necessarily the choice I'd make, but a valid one), or unless they have no place to store these oats, or unless they choose not to support Walmart because Walmart underpays its workers, thus contributing to the problem of poverty. They say beggars can't be choosers, but that's not actually true.

I can't believe people buy their kids new shoes! And cable! When they're poor!

Yes, heaven forbid your children have shoes that fit and don't have holes. As for cable, that can cost as little as $15 a month. Sure, it's an unnecessary expense, but really? That $15 a month is probably not going to provide breakfast for two children, for the whole month.

Now, I do have a question about free lunch/breakfast, which is why parents can't opt to just get the money that would've paid for their kids food, possibly in the form of food stamps. The government reimburses schools $2.76 for each free lunch bought... uh, served. Even if we count that some of that is the cost of trays and forks and lunch ladies and all, some of that money could go directly to the families instead, couldn't it, thus allowing more choices.

Date: 2011-04-28 07:28 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] leora.livejournal.com
I would have loved that if they did that in high school during hoemroom. (Homeroom was after first period. I didn't go to first period, as you didn't have to if you didn't have a class, but you had to go to homeroom). I stopped eating breakfast in high school as my mom stopped being willing to wake up early to make it for me under the acceptable reasoning that I was old enough to do it myself, but I wasn't a good enough cook and I just plain didn't have the time. I was too sleep deprived. If someone had been willing to give me something I would eat, anything I would eat, on a regular basis it would have really helped. Even if it only were on some days of the week (I was a very picky eater). Our cafeteria had these not very good bagels with butter, which aren't great nutritionally, but I bet it was far better for me than eating nothing. Money was not the issue, but I went to school with no food a lot of the time, and my high school journal from the English classes that required we keep one is a constant, boring litany of me commenting on how tired and hungry I am (interspersed with other things, but when I reread it I was surprised at just how much of it is me talking about being tired and hungry). Any food, even empty calories would likely have been better.

It was really bad the semester or year (I forget) that I had no lunch period for scheduling reasons. And my study hall teacher wouldn't let me eat in study hall even if I brought food in. (Which I am still angry about, that was so stupid. On two counts. One that I couldn't eat in study hall during fourth period even though I told her I had no lunch period. Two that they made me take study hall because I had no class fourth period, but wouldn't let me leave school and go home for the period. Because lunch periods are only fifth, sixth, or seventh period. If you have any of those free you may leave school during them. If you have two of them free, you may leave school for more than one of them. Have fourth period free and no lunch period and you don't get to eat all day.) (I can hold a grudge for decades.)

But an in-school breakfast would have really helped. As a time issue. I'd have been okay paying for it. I could have gotten the money. But I had no way to get one that I knew of as I wasn't financially needy. Just tired and hungry.

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