Just for a bit to gape and ask "Do you understand this?", the implication being that he didn't. (I *let* him have it, it wasn't, you know, snatched out of my grasp.)
I just kinda shrugged at him. I didn't see that as the point.
I'm browsing around a bit and remembering that I re-read Emma in Winter a lot as a kid. I never really understood it, but I liked it.
Oftentimes a "kid's review" over at Amazon will whine "I didn't understand it!!!!! And it sucks!!!!" except they'll spell it all wrong and forget to capitalize. They always do this about books I thought at their approximate ages to be perfectly plain and obvious, but... honestly, as a kid I never really thought understanding it was the point. You read a book, you take what you can, you read it again. After you read it several times you understand it a bit more. Sometimes you understand one chapter only to lose it the next time you read it, that happens.
Some books, of course, were transparently easy to grasp. The various series fiction might've been incredibly formulaic, but that meant that you never had to figure them out. The Giver might hit you over the head a few times, but once you stop trying to work out the math it's painfully obvious what's going on. But just understanding a book is not the same as liking it, and the two never seemed (or still seem - I read most PTerry books twice before I really get the surface of them, and that's not even getting into any sort of annotation, but I don't know why this is) to correlate.
Textbooks should be clear and simple, which is why they're so often boring, but book books? I don't know.
But maybe I'm weird like that, and most people value clear comprehension somewhere higher than I do?
I just kinda shrugged at him. I didn't see that as the point.
I'm browsing around a bit and remembering that I re-read Emma in Winter a lot as a kid. I never really understood it, but I liked it.
Oftentimes a "kid's review" over at Amazon will whine "I didn't understand it!!!!! And it sucks!!!!" except they'll spell it all wrong and forget to capitalize. They always do this about books I thought at their approximate ages to be perfectly plain and obvious, but... honestly, as a kid I never really thought understanding it was the point. You read a book, you take what you can, you read it again. After you read it several times you understand it a bit more. Sometimes you understand one chapter only to lose it the next time you read it, that happens.
Some books, of course, were transparently easy to grasp. The various series fiction might've been incredibly formulaic, but that meant that you never had to figure them out. The Giver might hit you over the head a few times, but once you stop trying to work out the math it's painfully obvious what's going on. But just understanding a book is not the same as liking it, and the two never seemed (or still seem - I read most PTerry books twice before I really get the surface of them, and that's not even getting into any sort of annotation, but I don't know why this is) to correlate.
Textbooks should be clear and simple, which is why they're so often boring, but book books? I don't know.
But maybe I'm weird like that, and most people value clear comprehension somewhere higher than I do?
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Date: 2010-04-29 07:10 am (UTC)I didn't always think to look for more books by an author I liked when I was young. Especially because I liked almost everything I read, so I just read what was easily available, which meant what was already in the house. As there were hundreds of books in the house, this worked out fine. (Thousands is probably an accurate statement,)
I should eventually check out some more of her books. Although there are already several books I want to buy when next I have a book buying budget. I have read book 1 in the Farsala series and I have managed to buy book 3. However, I find this leaves me slightly annoyed with my current situation. And then I found another book I read recently is the start of a series...
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Date: 2010-04-29 02:48 pm (UTC)Emma in Winter is a lot more... mystical than Charlotte Sometimes. Charlotte Sometimes is pretty straightforward.
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Date: 2010-04-29 09:36 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2010-04-29 09:51 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2010-04-29 10:04 pm (UTC)But it's a short-term thing. Very fortunately, Lao-Tzu is in full remission and maintaining that mainly requires luck and medicine that isn't too expensive (the luck is really a big thing, but we can't control it). And Mina is now being switched to a maintenance routine since her blood counts are now normal (this is fantastic) and so she's off the aggressive (and expensive) chemo and onto something much cheaper that will hopefully have fewer side effects as we just need to keep her where she is rather than fight back cancer.
So, soon we'll have more of a budget again. In fact, I might be able to do it with May's budget... but I'm getting into an expensive time of year for me, since among other things I want to give my grand-nephew a nice birthday gift once he gets around to being born. (In all fairness, he's not late yet, even though my niece seems a bit eager to have him outside her body by this point.)
So yeah... things got annoying and it meant delaying all luxuries. But I'll get the book. And I have other books to read. I do live in a house full of books.
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Date: 2010-04-29 02:26 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2010-04-29 09:57 pm (UTC)A lot of the kids I've talked to complained about not understanding, which often made things boring.
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Date: 2010-04-30 01:23 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2010-04-30 04:00 am (UTC)I have had days where I looked at the available books and thought, "I just cannot do worldbuilding right now." Not all days are SF days.
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Date: 2010-04-30 12:58 am (UTC)I believe this complaint about "I didn't understand it" to be school-engendered. What we're hearing is Test Anxiety, a result of the increasingly test-centric school environment. These kids don't like a complex book because they've been conditioned to think that the purpose of reading is to be able to answer test-questions. "I didn't understand it" really means "It made me think, and I'm not comfortable thinking independently because I might be Wrong."
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Date: 2010-05-06 10:18 pm (UTC)When I was a kid, if I couldn't understand a book I didn't read it because it couldn't hold my interest. However, I think this was more of a technical grasp of language problem as opposed to understanding of the theme. I tried to read one of the James Herriot books when I was very young (I don't remember the exact age, but probably seven or younger) and put it down simply because it was too advanced for me technically, but read the whole collection later and loved them. On the other hand, I read Animal Farm when I was nine or ten and adored it, even though I didn't grasp ideas and themes that I found in it later.
Same with The Pearl, by John Steinbeck; I read it when I was far too young to really understand it, but I thought it was a good story, and the style was readable. That was all that mattered.
I think I enjoy books more when I feel that I understand them, but provided there's a good story and an enjoyable style, I'm good.
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Date: 2010-05-16 06:59 am (UTC)I also definitely forced my way through a few books much too young and missed appreciating much about them, but I reread them all later and loved them then.
I do, though, think I know what a lot of those kids mean: I suspect they don't mean "I don't understand" so much as "I can't identify," which was my primary reason for hating books (mostly realistic fiction, especially historical) as a kid and teen (including a number of books I had to read for school). If I couldn't get an emotional grasp on what the main character of a book was experiencing, I tended to dislike the whole thing very much.