Hypothetical question....

[conuly]

Is it better to change your appearance, and then feel better about yourself, or to work on your self-image and worry about your appearance later (if at all)?

I know which one I vote for.

Comments

[kibbles.livejournal.com]

Having a good self image doesn't mean you HAVE to be content with looking less than your best. I have a decent self image but still enjoy dressing up, getting a haircut, waxing my eyebrows, whatever.

I think the difference is I like doing this for myself, and I am not doing it for anyone else but me. Can't even say I am doing it for my spouse, because, well, he's not here!

Also for me, trying on looks is almost like trying on different personalities. It's fun!