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Apr. 26th, 2005 03:22 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
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One of my sister's friends tried that "I won't have sex until I'm married line" around my mom (or maybe Jenn reported it to her, I'm not sure) and my mom laughed in her face.
And, if you're curious, her everlasting advice goes as follows: Sex. Is. Not. Love. You can have love without sex, you can have sex without love. Too many stupid people get themselves into bad, or abusive, or just plain boring relationships because of "well, we had sex, but it's all right because we're in love, so now we have to stay togetha 4eva!!!!" and it's wrong.
(Everything after the first four words is an elaboration by me)
And, if you're curious, her everlasting advice goes as follows: Sex. Is. Not. Love. You can have love without sex, you can have sex without love. Too many stupid people get themselves into bad, or abusive, or just plain boring relationships because of "well, we had sex, but it's all right because we're in love, so now we have to stay togetha 4eva!!!!" and it's wrong.
(Everything after the first four words is an elaboration by me)
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Date: 2005-04-26 04:11 pm (UTC)and abstinence is a great way to have boring, flat sex the same way in a marriage. I mean, when you finally DO have sex, you don't know how or what you're doing or anything. Fex: The dude will probably not get that the woman has to have foreplay too, in order to enjoy sex to the fullest, or the woman might not know...something. Not to mention the hymen pain thing that is probable making the night unfun.
So. Um. yeah.