People with that lifestyle would consider it normal and respectful to go through the parents. IT wouldn't be objectifying her as much as it would be respect for her and the family.
Reminds me of a friend of mine. HE met his fiancee once, and still doesn't know where she lives exactly (just London). I dont think he'll get to know her directly until after they wed.
It's just not spoken about, I don't think.
And the ebay thing isn't so much objectifying I think as publicity. People do wacky stuff like this all the time just to get attention for their cause. :D
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Date: 2005-02-21 05:02 am (UTC)Reminds me of a friend of mine. HE met his fiancee once, and still doesn't know where she lives exactly (just London). I dont think he'll get to know her directly until after they wed.
It's just not spoken about, I don't think.
And the ebay thing isn't so much objectifying I think as publicity. People do wacky stuff like this all the time just to get attention for their cause. :D