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I have problems. Seriously, I do.
But I don't ever like mentioning them, ever, because I always feel like I'm whining or exaggerating.
Take the idea of faceblindess. I don't think I'm faceblind. I don't consider myself faceblind. And yet, there's a number of incidents which only make sense if I say I'm faceblind. Most notoriously, there's the time I was about to tell a man with a cute baby "my niece has that same outfit" when I realized that it *was* my niece and brother-in-law, but trust me when I say this incident is not alone in my memory.
Or there's my hearing. I have very good hearing. My hearing is probably better than yours. I can hear the train doors close from several blocks away. But I can't be in a crowded room and follow a conversation. I never used to mention this to people, and just sat through "group work" where I either did nothing or did everything because it was easier than trying to listen to people talking. I still don't like mentioning it to people, because it's just "Well, my hearing isn't bad, exactly, but it's hard for me sometimes, but not all the time, and... um...."
Riiiiight.
Well, this has been my melodramatic post for the day. Djusk' a!
But I don't ever like mentioning them, ever, because I always feel like I'm whining or exaggerating.
Take the idea of faceblindess. I don't think I'm faceblind. I don't consider myself faceblind. And yet, there's a number of incidents which only make sense if I say I'm faceblind. Most notoriously, there's the time I was about to tell a man with a cute baby "my niece has that same outfit" when I realized that it *was* my niece and brother-in-law, but trust me when I say this incident is not alone in my memory.
Or there's my hearing. I have very good hearing. My hearing is probably better than yours. I can hear the train doors close from several blocks away. But I can't be in a crowded room and follow a conversation. I never used to mention this to people, and just sat through "group work" where I either did nothing or did everything because it was easier than trying to listen to people talking. I still don't like mentioning it to people, because it's just "Well, my hearing isn't bad, exactly, but it's hard for me sometimes, but not all the time, and... um...."
Riiiiight.
Well, this has been my melodramatic post for the day. Djusk' a!
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Date: 2005-02-09 08:23 pm (UTC)That is what I do. I hate group work for that reason too, because I hate everyone talking at me at once. Usually I'm pretty good in social situations, though.
Luckily, my teachers know this and give me the option to work alone. I get the work done faster and with less pain to me.
It *is* always nice to know there are people out there with the same problems as you.