Straight pride? Oy vey....

[conuly]

I think this is all a result of confusing and conflating two different definitions of the word "pride".

The first has to do with a sense of accomplishment. I am proud to have gotten 3 As and an A- last summer. I am proud to have gone to Stuy (even though I didn't stay there).

The second has to do with simply not being ashamed. That's what people mean they have gay pride, or black pride, or autistic pride. They haven't accomplished any of these things, they simply mean that they aren't ashamed of them and don't wish to change them. They have to say that they're proud because they're all minorities. Mainstream culture would generally prefer that these people change, or pretend to change, or act as though they've changed. Mainstream culture encourages people to be ashamed of things they cannot help, if those things make them different. Mainstream culture kinda sucks, doesn't it?

Anyway, as I was saying, you can't really use "pride" in a sense of "not being ashamed" unless you're a minority. People who identify as straight really aren't a minority, and make all the laws, and therefore don't get a parade. Sorry, duckies.

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[xmorningxrosex.livejournal.com]

yes yes yes! You wouldn't believe how many times I've gotten into this argument with people who think that since gay people get parades and flags and whatnot, straight people should as well. And I've said some of the stuff you said, almost word for word too!

*high fives*

[conuly]

*grins* Danke. The problem is that word "pride". If we had another word for "nonashamedness" instead of making "pride" do double duty, we wouldn't be so bad off.

How about this: gay people (or whatever) are proud, if you're in the majority and have "pride" parades then you're merely prideful.

[xmorningxrosex.livejournal.com]

I like the way you said that too!

*more high fives* :P