(I just noticed - your comments are on GMT, not Pacific. Heehee.)
I kinda see it as a certificate of life, the opposite of a death certificate. And I dunno, it just makes me feel a little uneasy. Maybe I'm being bothered by nothing. (I can't work out whether it includes miscarriage, or if it's just stillborn - the former worries me more.)
I don't see it the same way you do. If you carry a baby to term, you likely wanted the child. That's a lot of hopes and dreams, gone. Poof. You want to bury the kid, some people do baptisms on them, and a birth certificate can help ease the pain for some people. Otherwise, it's like saying you're not grieving anything.
Whereas, in the UK, you are required to get both a birth certificate and a death certificate for a still born.
*shrug*
It's the Magic Moment, isn't it? After that point, it's a human being, before that it isn't, because, you know, it can't possibly be a gradual process, can it.
(deleted the last comment because it wasn't supposed to be a reply to eofs)
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Date: 2005-01-06 08:20 pm (UTC)Read down the comments - in Virginia you can now get a birth certificate for a stillborn.
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Date: 2005-01-06 08:22 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2005-01-06 08:32 pm (UTC)I kinda see it as a certificate of life, the opposite of a death certificate. And I dunno, it just makes me feel a little uneasy. Maybe I'm being bothered by nothing. (I can't work out whether it includes miscarriage, or if it's just stillborn - the former worries me more.)
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Date: 2005-01-06 08:40 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2005-01-06 08:31 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2005-01-07 01:26 am (UTC)*shrug*
It's the Magic Moment, isn't it? After that point, it's a human being, before that it isn't, because, you know, it can't possibly be a gradual process, can it.
(deleted the last comment because it wasn't supposed to be a reply to eofs)