So, due to a combination of things hitting at once we're overdue on both the electric and gas bills

[conuly]

Jenn's plan to self-set-up her own balanced billing + a random screwup with autopay that she didn't realize until we were in the hole + having to help a friend get out of an abusive relationship = omg.

I'm pretty sure that they legally can't actually shut us off until May 15th, and once we get the tax refund we can pay the entire past due bills... but there's no promise we will get that refund by that date, and I would be surprised if we do. I don't want to go a week without lights and hot water, or a fridge and stove.

I'm reasonably certain that if we pay even half the past due now, we can talk them into waiting for that refund. The entire total is something like $6k... I'm a little scared to look again, honestly. I just sorta glanced at the bills in horror.

I've got paypal and venmo, which is posted here, or if you can't see that and can and want to help out you can PM me. We can absolutely pay back (or forward!) as soon as that refund comes in. I know how much the refund is, it will cover these bills.

(I've also been sitting on posting this for a few days, so I better get it out before I chicken out again!)

Comments

[offcntr]

Tried to go to your PayPal listing, but don't have permission to view.

[conuly]

You're a doll and I love you. I gave you access, but if you still can't see poke me and I'll PM.

[cellio]

The "common wisdom" I have heard, but do not have direct experience with, is that utilities will work with customers on payment plans. If something is coming in on a regular basis, they're likely to work with you to avoid shutoffs. I don't know if that's true, or true where you are, but there's no harm in contacting them to ask about options.

[conuly]

Yes, that’s what we’re banking on. Trying to get through to an actual person is hell, though.

[wendelah1]

I can't help right now: I have to pay $6,000 in unsecured property taxes by the end of the month. I absolutely would call your utilities and explain what happened and that you will be able to your bills once your refund is issued. If you filed electronically, it shouldn't take long to get your refund. A piece of unsolicited advice: I would try to adjust your withholding so that the government doesn't get the free use of that refund money next year. Since Kyle died, I've been underwithheld, which resulted in ginormous taxes owed for 2023 and 2024. I finally forced myself to adjust my withholding this year.