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I always counsel against getting too involved with the grandkids. They are often used as bargaining chips when there is a disagreement.

That's one perspective, I suppose.

Date: 2020-02-02 10:46 am (UTC)
crystalpyramid: (Default)
From: [personal profile] crystalpyramid
Never make connections with people, it will only be used against you? I worry for this person.

Date: 2020-02-02 01:14 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] moon_custafer
I admit I had the opposite reaction— I worry for this person’s kids and grandkids.

Date: 2020-02-02 01:15 pm (UTC)
crystalpyramid: (Default)
From: [personal profile] crystalpyramid

Hopefully they're being shielded by this policy at least?

Date: 2020-02-02 03:28 pm (UTC)
dewline: Text - "On the DEWLine" (Default)
From: [personal profile] dewline
Seconding that. Long story involving people who haven't consented to being discussed here.

Date: 2020-02-02 06:46 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] brokenallbroken
There's someone who hasn't read the Evil Overlord list.

Date: 2020-02-02 07:01 pm (UTC)
silveradept: A kodama with a trombone. The trombone is playing music, even though it is held in a rest position (Default)
From: [personal profile] silveradept
That is certainly a perspective to have about things. I fear it reveals more than the commenter might want to say about their own life.

Date: 2020-02-02 08:47 pm (UTC)
silveradept: A kodama with a trombone. The trombone is playing music, even though it is held in a rest position (Default)
From: [personal profile] silveradept
Ah, yes, I've seen that happen before, where someone is so convinced they are right they don't see how they could be very wrong.

Date: 2020-02-03 02:16 am (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] chez_jae
That's an odd reason to distance oneself from family. And, if they'd raised their children right, there wouldn't be an issue with "bargaining chips".

Date: 2020-02-02 08:03 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] elenbarathi.livejournal.com
One kinda messed-up perspective, I'd say. Better counsel would be not to get too involved with the grown-up kids' personal grown-up business.

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