Makes sense. Whenever someone does the intense-eye-contact deal, I get the feeling they're trying to stare me down. It becomes a staring contest at that point, and I start to get a little annoyed about it.
(To be fair, my parents pretty much only gave steady eye contact when they were pissed off about something I did, lol. Maybe that's why.)
I am not surprised. What surprises me is how often therapists and social scientists claim that positioning one's body directly and squarely opposite another's and looking them steadily in the face is a neutral or even benign behavior. People, it's called "confrontation" for a reason.
I kind of wonder how valid this study's methodology is. Varying whether the watcher looks at a video speaker's eyes or mouth doesn't seem closely analogous to whether an actual speaker looks at the watcher's eyes or not.
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Date: 2013-10-06 03:54 pm (UTC)(To be fair, my parents pretty much only gave steady eye contact when they were pissed off about something I did, lol. Maybe that's why.)
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Date: 2013-10-08 03:30 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2013-10-08 04:02 pm (UTC)