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Or mean, or whatever. But for the love of sanity, if you're gonna go that far to tell me that, tell me why you said it. Otherwise you've left me hanging. And if I ask you, and you decide you want me to shut up and go away, find something else to say than "it's not important" because if it WASN'T important, do you THINK I'd be hanging around asking you to tell me what I said to upset you? It's not like I don't have better things to do with my time, but now that you've told me, it's going to keep me up all fucking night if I don't figure out what, exactly, upset you. And that's just annoying.
Seriously, I had a bad day. I missed my makeup art history final because my time was two hours from the actual time. I spent half an hour crying about this in a friggin' hallway before I could even get to the train to cry about it there. And the boat. And a little at home. The last thing I need is more goddamn stress on LIVEJOURNAL. The least you could do is apologise for upsetting ME, as I did with you, if you can't be bothered to explain how I originally upset you.
Oh, side-note? For my friends, if I want to actually insult you, I'll use one of the following paradigms:
You're a stupid moron. The direct route. Very difficult to confuse with me speaking normally.
I'm sorry sweetie/liebchen/mon petit chou, but I think you're wrong/a stupid moron. The nickname route, also very easy to recognize. Be warned that I sometimes DO use nicknames in their intended fashion. I never use ducky while insulting, I sometimes use little one kindly, I rarely use angel any way but the sweet way. Foreign nicknames mean you've really pissed me off.
Just because YOU think it's okay to declaw cats doesn't mean it is (you stupid moron). Let's call this one an ad hominem, even if it's not. Simple, no?
That pretty much sums it up. If you're confused and think I meant to insult you, you can always ask, you're sure to get an honest answer, because if I don't want to insult you I'll apologise, and if I do I really don't give a.
Seriously, I had a bad day. I missed my makeup art history final because my time was two hours from the actual time. I spent half an hour crying about this in a friggin' hallway before I could even get to the train to cry about it there. And the boat. And a little at home. The last thing I need is more goddamn stress on LIVEJOURNAL. The least you could do is apologise for upsetting ME, as I did with you, if you can't be bothered to explain how I originally upset you.
Oh, side-note? For my friends, if I want to actually insult you, I'll use one of the following paradigms:
You're a stupid moron. The direct route. Very difficult to confuse with me speaking normally.
I'm sorry sweetie/liebchen/mon petit chou, but I think you're wrong/a stupid moron. The nickname route, also very easy to recognize. Be warned that I sometimes DO use nicknames in their intended fashion. I never use ducky while insulting, I sometimes use little one kindly, I rarely use angel any way but the sweet way. Foreign nicknames mean you've really pissed me off.
Just because YOU think it's okay to declaw cats doesn't mean it is (you stupid moron). Let's call this one an ad hominem, even if it's not. Simple, no?
That pretty much sums it up. If you're confused and think I meant to insult you, you can always ask, you're sure to get an honest answer, because if I don't want to insult you I'll apologise, and if I do I really don't give a.
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Date: 2004-02-04 08:44 pm (UTC)*hugs for your bad day*
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Date: 2004-02-04 09:24 pm (UTC)When good smilies... go bad.
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Date: 2004-02-04 09:29 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2004-02-05 02:07 pm (UTC)"You're a stupid moron. The direct route. Very difficult to confuse with me speaking normally."
...very funny. Simply because in the past I'd been guilty of misinterpereting (sp?) your intentions. Though, that was because of my sick insecurity, not you.
And, honestly? You can (and do) come up with better than 'Stupid moron.' But, you know that, and it was only an example, so I'll poof now.
-POOF-
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Date: 2004-02-05 04:32 pm (UTC)Of course I do, but I'm making it oh-so-simple for those whom I might wish to insult to their faces.
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Date: 2004-02-04 08:44 pm (UTC)*hugs for your bad day*
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Date: 2004-02-04 08:57 pm (UTC)Re:
Date: 2004-02-04 09:20 pm (UTC)Re:
Date: 2004-02-04 09:24 pm (UTC)When good smilies... go bad.
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Date: 2004-02-04 09:29 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2004-02-05 02:07 pm (UTC)"You're a stupid moron. The direct route. Very difficult to confuse with me speaking normally."
...very funny. Simply because in the past I'd been guilty of misinterpereting (sp?) your intentions. Though, that was because of my sick insecurity, not you.
And, honestly? You can (and do) come up with better than 'Stupid moron.' But, you know that, and it was only an example, so I'll poof now.
-POOF-
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Date: 2004-02-05 04:32 pm (UTC)Of course I do, but I'm making it oh-so-simple for those whom I might wish to insult to their faces.