A blog entry on "fitting in"...

[conuly]

Well worth reading, of course.

Comments

[kibbles.livejournal.com]

Really made a lot of stuff clear.

[conuly]

That's why I post links. Which is such a stupid reply to make to your comment, and I apologise. I got the link off of... um... that feed I posted about a while back, the name of which I can't recall at the moment.

[kibbles.livejournal.com]

It's not a stupid reply, it was a short comment, but phone rang, etc. so I didn't get to elaborate.


Although thanks to the LOVELY Board of Ed I still am in a holding pattern about Ted, but when you post links like that it makes me feel better about his behavior. I can communicate better. I can tell more when he's bored, distressed, don't feel a need to immediately stop him when he is doing something I don't understand. It's making HIM Happier, I think, because at least MOM gets him. Not 100% but we're making our needs to each other known better. And that's what I care about. When this whole journey started, I kept thinking, 'he's just about FERAL' but he wasn't, and isn't. I just didn't speak his language and he wasn't speaking mine.

[conuly]

Board of Ed sucks. Always. That's why we stole all their pencils when I was a kid.

It's good that you're understanding him more, and vice versa - lots of people have that problem. Lots more don't even recognize that *that's* the problem.

And *hugs* just because.