See, proof that empathy exists for some people. When we see someone else in a situation, we feel it to a certain extent as if we were in it. Using our cognitive skills, we can adjust what we feel based on what we know of that person. For example, if I were afraid of being on stage (I'm not, but let's pretend) I would feel nervous and uncomfortable on the behalf of others on stage. But I can learn that others find it enjoyable and view them as in a different situation than I think. I have to imagine being in the situation of being on stage and not finding it frightening but enjoyable. So, I add the variable of - being afraid to be on stage - to the situation as I perceive it to know what to empathize with. But that's empathy, triggering the same brain paths for perceiving someone else in a situation as you would for being in that situation.
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Date: 2005-03-30 05:12 pm (UTC)