This is as good a place as any to say this so here goes.
Thank you, Connie. Before I started reading your journal I had no real understanding at all of what Autism is. I had never heard of Asperger's, and like many people, my idea of an autist was centered around Dustin Hoffman's performance in Rain Man.
In the few months I have been following your journal, you have opened my eyes to the wide variety of people on the Spectrum, and the various opinions about what should be 'done about' them. You've helped me to gain some small understanding where there was none (and probably negative, to tell the truth) before. I read the articles you post with a great deal of interest. I have come to understand that autism can be considered a difference, and not a disease. Most of all, you have helped me to see something about myself - namely that before I understand something I fear it, and that I need to seek out more opportunities to grow in understanding. Thinking back on the ways I previously thought is almost painful, much like looking back on previously held opinions that were based in homophobia. It startles me that I can be so insensitive, so stupid.
Sorry to gush, I know it's probably awkward. Don't worry, I'm not making you a spokesperson or anything. You just opened a door for me, and I thought you should know.
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Date: 2005-02-15 11:27 am (UTC)Thank you, Connie. Before I started reading your journal I had no real understanding at all of what Autism is. I had never heard of Asperger's, and like many people, my idea of an autist was centered around Dustin Hoffman's performance in Rain Man.
In the few months I have been following your journal, you have opened my eyes to the wide variety of people on the Spectrum, and the various opinions about what should be 'done about' them. You've helped me to gain some small understanding where there was none (and probably negative, to tell the truth) before. I read the articles you post with a great deal of interest. I have come to understand that autism can be considered a difference, and not a disease. Most of all, you have helped me to see something about myself - namely that before I understand something I fear it, and that I need to seek out more opportunities to grow in understanding. Thinking back on the ways I previously thought is almost painful, much like looking back on previously held opinions that were based in homophobia. It startles me that I can be so insensitive, so stupid.
So, thank you. Thank you for waking me up.
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Date: 2005-02-15 11:54 am (UTC)You're welcome.
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Date: 2005-02-15 12:11 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2005-02-15 12:25 pm (UTC)