Just went to the store, spent over $90 for half a week's groceries just for me.
This is not sustainable, but it's not going to get better any time soon.
I could eat at work, but let's be clear, I don't much like the housekeeper's cooking, they rarely have in stock what I'd need to make my own food the way I like it (other than eggs), and also I have some weird food issues around... I don't really know. Eating other people's food? But not at a restaurant where it's okay? Maybe it's smelling the food? I honestly do not know, that's what makes these issues weird. (But even if I didn't, she boils the poor vegetables to death.)
This is not sustainable, but it's not going to get better any time soon.
I could eat at work, but let's be clear, I don't much like the housekeeper's cooking, they rarely have in stock what I'd need to make my own food the way I like it (other than eggs), and also I have some weird food issues around... I don't really know. Eating other people's food? But not at a restaurant where it's okay? Maybe it's smelling the food? I honestly do not know, that's what makes these issues weird. (But even if I didn't, she boils the poor vegetables to death.)
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Date: 2026-04-15 05:15 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2026-04-15 09:18 pm (UTC)Kinda relate to feeling weird eating food made by anyone outside of the household unless it's from a Food Place. It's not a particularly strong sensation for me usually, but I'd guess mine comes from a hard-to-shake assumption that you need both a 'professional' cook and a 'professional' setting to live up to hygiene/quality standards, ignoring my household because I'm used to what happens in it. I've never particularly trusted the cleanliness of other people as a result of being used to my mother's frequent cleaning, and being born a pretty fragile individual who has a 50% chance to be out-of-commission over at any mild health inconvenience lol
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Date: 2026-04-15 09:29 pm (UTC)O_O
Date: 2026-04-15 10:20 pm (UTC)When we need to save money on food, we usually:
* Hit the local food pantry.
* Shop "seconds" at farmer's markets, where it is often possible to buy mass quantities of imperfect produce to cook down for spaghetti sauce, sloppy joe filling, etc. and freeze for later convenience meals.
* Look up recipes for cheap tasty food. Soul food, Indian, and African are all useful for this.
* Watch for foods on sale at the store, or cheaper versions of a thing.
* Cook more from scratch, which admittedly requires having the extra time and energy for that.
* Forage / garden more in the yard.
* We now have several bargain / salvage groceries in the area. The original up in Arthur, now there's one each in Arthur and Arcola too, all different titles. Charleston is where we get the oat flour to make the world's best blueberry muffins.
* Costco is a great place to buy ingredients. We've still got a couple of the chicken thigh packets in the freezer, which make it very easy to throw together a crockpot or wok meal with whatever else we have.
YMMV. Cheap cookin' is a perennial interest.
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Date: 2026-04-16 12:00 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2026-04-16 12:03 am (UTC)I think my food issue - this one, I mean, not the other one - may really boil down to the fact that I can’t reliably distinguish hunger and nausea, if I feel hunger at all. So I smell food and feel nauseated. Add to that my usual bit of social anxiety and I just can’t eat.
I hear ya on the groceries
Date: 2026-04-16 12:17 am (UTC)A big bag of a Normandy mix works a treat, too. A measuring cup full of those veggies nuked in the microwave along with a bowl of ramen - mix: done.
You are very right, we can't keep this up, though. We can swap recipes and ideas; but when basic ingredients get costly - no amount of scrimping is going to help.
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Date: 2026-04-16 12:51 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2026-04-16 01:03 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2026-04-16 03:25 am (UTC)Mine too. I was in college when I learned that vegetables could have flavor and texture and be something I liked.