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1. When I was a child, my knee used to lock up sometimes if I had my leg bent. I couldn't open it, and it felt like it had slid out of joint. I still get twitchy if I have to crouch down for more than a few seconds. The last such incident probably occurred in my 20s.

2. I've always had weak ankles, prone to twisting.

3. A few years ago I sat down in the Bronx Zoo and when I stood up again I popped my hip, causing periodic recurring pain and aches - notably this week, where even sitting still on the bus was too much.

4. My sister used to be able to clasp her hands behind her back and bring them above her head to her front without letting go.

5. Yesterday I witnessed my mother casually bringing her foot up to her face to demonstrate that she could. She does that periodically, and at this point I suddenly put together points 1 - 4 and realized - THIS IS ALL HER FAULT! She's got some sort of freaky hypermobility genes, and she passed them on to us, and she and Jenn got the fun parts* while all I got were the twisted ankles and the hip pain! That's utterly unfair, and I told her so right then and there, too. I got completely cheated somewhere.

Edit: I'd forgotten, but well into my teens I used to enjoy sitting with my legs in a W because it was fun, and likewise I can still catch my foot in my hand behind my back while leaning over. (Though not right now, because my hip is owie.)

* Jenn's flexibility isn't all fun and games, but I'm fairly certain that our mother hasn't suffered one day over this. She doesn't even appear to have any arthritis, and I know that runs in her family.

EDS underdiagnosis and bad news

Date: 2019-02-01 05:56 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] flamingsword
Ehlers-Danlos IS a spectrum disorder, but in much the same way that autism is. You dont just have a scale between "can function" and "can't function", you also have a buffet of symptoms beyond hypermobility like fragile skin, slow healing, friable circulatory system (those migraines you were talking about go here), low blood pressure, weak immune system, dislocations, and bowel problems. Because only some people have the requisite hypermobility, the other forms dont tend to get diagnosed without sinking thousands of dollars into different specialists. My cousins have the diagnosable form, my uncle and I are just extra bendy with occasional dislocations and migraines. The second cousin who had the original diagnosis in the family sunk $11K into doctors to figure out what was going on.

If you think EDS is what it could be, dont be shy about it. Google a doctor near you that even knows what it is, march into that doctor's office once you have the money and be like, I'm pretty sure I have this, and I need genetic testing to confirm it. Then get into physical therapy and learn what exercises will help, which stretches will harm, and possibly get your paper trail together to go on disability if you need it later. The chronic pain *can* get worse, and being prepared is your friend.

Re: EDS underdiagnosis and bad news

Date: 2019-02-02 12:18 am (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] flamingsword
My cousin does not talk as much about this as much as she does the other stuff, so I looked it up. Consensus seems to be constipation, bathroom urgency, and a slowing of the peristalsis of the intestines such that they occasionally stop completely and need medical intervention for some people.
https://www.bladderandbowel.org/associated-illness/ehlers-danlos-syndrome/

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