Should I apologise?

[conuly]

Some people may know of a certain... mutual dislike between me and Dracosolaris, culminating in her leaving, kinda, the neocolours board. She had a bit too much faith in the staff for my tastes, and was a wee bit too willing to assume people were lying when they said they'd been mistakenly frozen. However, now something similar has happened to her, in that she's lost both her trophies and her gallery. So she made a bit of an apology on the neocolours board, and I neomailed my sympathy. My question is this: even though I like to think of myself as being in the right, and I believe I was less in the wrong than she was, I can see how I may not have acted as maturly as I could. Would it be better to apologise, generally, or would that bring up too many old things? Or does she not merit an apology, even?

*sighs in confuzzlement*

Comments

[feathered.livejournal.com]

Hmm.. I think it would be a nice gesture. It would definitely be mature and friendly. I wouldn't suggest doing it publicly, it's really just between you and her and I don't think that everyone needs to get invovled, it might just cause another stir. It's really up to you. She did act very immature and rude towards you, so she might not deserve an apology, but it would be a nice thing to do. If you really do feel sort of sorry, you should PM her and say sorry, I think. If not, don't bother. It's your choice.. these are just my opinions. I'd probably do it. *shrugs*

[conuly]

Regardless of whether or not she *deserves* an apology, sometimes you have to do things you don't like just to come out looking like the mature individual.

[gingembre.livejournal.com]

Yep. Besides, then you get the self-back-patting of being the better person. But I second the suggestion to keep it private.

[xiggaroo.livejournal.com]

I personally wouldn't, but, I'm a bitch.

Do what you think is best, and in this situation, I agree that a SMALL apology, or some sort of you coming out and saying what you did wrong, whatever, would be appropriate.

[conuly]

Well, we've made up, I think. At least, we're being friendly.

[feathered.livejournal.com]

Hmm.. I think it would be a nice gesture. It would definitely be mature and friendly. I wouldn't suggest doing it publicly, it's really just between you and her and I don't think that everyone needs to get invovled, it might just cause another stir. It's really up to you. She did act very immature and rude towards you, so she might not deserve an apology, but it would be a nice thing to do. If you really do feel sort of sorry, you should PM her and say sorry, I think. If not, don't bother. It's your choice.. these are just my opinions. I'd probably do it. *shrugs*

[conuly]

Regardless of whether or not she *deserves* an apology, sometimes you have to do things you don't like just to come out looking like the mature individual.

[gingembre.livejournal.com]

Yep. Besides, then you get the self-back-patting of being the better person. But I second the suggestion to keep it private.

[xiggaroo.livejournal.com]

I personally wouldn't, but, I'm a bitch.

Do what you think is best, and in this situation, I agree that a SMALL apology, or some sort of you coming out and saying what you did wrong, whatever, would be appropriate.

[conuly]

Well, we've made up, I think. At least, we're being friendly.