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Oct. 22nd, 2003 05:19 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
conuly
I put this in an ljcut because it really is long.
Hadla-the-bitch has found neocolours. Drat. In case she sees this, I call you Hadla-the-bitch because you are one, Heather dear. A snotty manipulative little brat. If you haven't seen her before, be prepared.
For proof, I give you the definition of histrionic personality disorder, with examples:
(American Definition)
A pervasive pattern of excessive emotionality and attention seeking, beginning by early adulthood and present in a variety of contexts, as indicated by five (or more) of the following:
1. is uncomfortable in situations in which he or she is not the center of attention
2. interaction with others is often characterized by inappropriate sexually seductive or provocative behavior
3. displays rapidly shifting and shallow expression of emotions
4. consistently uses physical appearance to draw attention to self
5. has a style of speech that is excessively impressionistic and lacking in detail
6. shows self-dramatization, theatricality, and exaggerated expression of emotion
7. is suggestible, i.e., easily influenced by others or circumstances
8. considers relationships to be more intimate than they actually are
1. If she ever wasn't the center of attention on I&S she'd throw a snit and storm out, then return to mention how she was so depressed and it was all our fault. This, of course, would lead for a long time to people posting how much they loved her.
2. She's been known to make boards on neo where she kisses everyone... and then flipped out when I pointed out that, given the high freezure rate, this might be a bad idea
3. See 1. That was often preceded by her proclaiming that she felt happier than she had all week/month/her life.
4. Okay, I can't really prove this one, but it could be in real life, I don't know.
5. Not sure what that means.
6. Trust me. She does.
7. I'd say anyone who claims others are responsible for their moods is.
8. Like when she threatened to kill herself when I started going out with Steven? And at the time, he didn't even LIKE her. And for months, she kept whining about how "I stole Steven from her". Whatever.
(European Definition)
Personality disorder characterized by at least 3 of the following:
(a) self-dramatization, theatricality, exaggerated expression of emotions;
(b) suggestibility, easily influenced by others or by circumstances;
(c) shallow and labile affectivity;
(d) continual seeking for excitement, appreciation by others, and activities in which the patient is the centre of attention;
(e) inappropriate seductiveness in appearance or behaviour;
(f) over-concern with physical attractiveness.
Associated features may include egocentricity, self-indulgence, continuous longing for appreciation, feelings that are easily hurt, and persistent manipulative behaviour to achieve own needs
A and B I already covered.
I'm not sure what C means.
D... damn straight. She used to make boards about me on neo, talking about how wonderful she thought I was (before I told her off for being a manipulative little snot one day) and then immediately neomail me whining about why I never posted on her boards.
E. Like when she was going out with, who was it? Who's 10 to her 17? And then he didn't want to do that anymore, and she flipped out at all of us?
F. Okay, can't prove that one.
Egocentricity: I've never heard her actually care about anyone else
Feelings that are easily hurt: Let's not even go there
Persistant manipulative behaviour: Well, I could give examples from other people, I'll stick to a few from my OWN life. 1. Way back last December, I had this convo on the boards with Jelgy about how I really liked Caramel rolls, but I couldn't find them anymore. Hadla must have been lurking, she wasn't posting. Much later, during the SUMMER, after I wasn't talking to her anymore, she IMed me, and I blocked her right away. So she sent me this hurt email saying she only wanted to say she'd found caramel rolls for me. WTF? That friggin' scared me, because it was a stupid little convo several months ago that she wasn't even participating in. 2. Well, after I broke up with Steven, they start talking again. And she had this fairly filthy convo with him one night on aim. And she emailled that convo to xiggy. Why? I can only imagine she did that so that Xiggy would tell me and I would read it. The whole convo was pretty disgusting.
So, if you don't know her, be careful, she acts sweet, but if you know her long enough, she's *not*.
Hadla-the-bitch has found neocolours. Drat. In case she sees this, I call you Hadla-the-bitch because you are one, Heather dear. A snotty manipulative little brat. If you haven't seen her before, be prepared.
For proof, I give you the definition of histrionic personality disorder, with examples:
(American Definition)
A pervasive pattern of excessive emotionality and attention seeking, beginning by early adulthood and present in a variety of contexts, as indicated by five (or more) of the following:
1. is uncomfortable in situations in which he or she is not the center of attention
2. interaction with others is often characterized by inappropriate sexually seductive or provocative behavior
3. displays rapidly shifting and shallow expression of emotions
4. consistently uses physical appearance to draw attention to self
5. has a style of speech that is excessively impressionistic and lacking in detail
6. shows self-dramatization, theatricality, and exaggerated expression of emotion
7. is suggestible, i.e., easily influenced by others or circumstances
8. considers relationships to be more intimate than they actually are
1. If she ever wasn't the center of attention on I&S she'd throw a snit and storm out, then return to mention how she was so depressed and it was all our fault. This, of course, would lead for a long time to people posting how much they loved her.
2. She's been known to make boards on neo where she kisses everyone... and then flipped out when I pointed out that, given the high freezure rate, this might be a bad idea
3. See 1. That was often preceded by her proclaiming that she felt happier than she had all week/month/her life.
4. Okay, I can't really prove this one, but it could be in real life, I don't know.
5. Not sure what that means.
6. Trust me. She does.
7. I'd say anyone who claims others are responsible for their moods is.
8. Like when she threatened to kill herself when I started going out with Steven? And at the time, he didn't even LIKE her. And for months, she kept whining about how "I stole Steven from her". Whatever.
(European Definition)
Personality disorder characterized by at least 3 of the following:
(a) self-dramatization, theatricality, exaggerated expression of emotions;
(b) suggestibility, easily influenced by others or by circumstances;
(c) shallow and labile affectivity;
(d) continual seeking for excitement, appreciation by others, and activities in which the patient is the centre of attention;
(e) inappropriate seductiveness in appearance or behaviour;
(f) over-concern with physical attractiveness.
Associated features may include egocentricity, self-indulgence, continuous longing for appreciation, feelings that are easily hurt, and persistent manipulative behaviour to achieve own needs
A and B I already covered.
I'm not sure what C means.
D... damn straight. She used to make boards about me on neo, talking about how wonderful she thought I was (before I told her off for being a manipulative little snot one day) and then immediately neomail me whining about why I never posted on her boards.
E. Like when she was going out with, who was it? Who's 10 to her 17? And then he didn't want to do that anymore, and she flipped out at all of us?
F. Okay, can't prove that one.
Egocentricity: I've never heard her actually care about anyone else
Feelings that are easily hurt: Let's not even go there
Persistant manipulative behaviour: Well, I could give examples from other people, I'll stick to a few from my OWN life. 1. Way back last December, I had this convo on the boards with Jelgy about how I really liked Caramel rolls, but I couldn't find them anymore. Hadla must have been lurking, she wasn't posting. Much later, during the SUMMER, after I wasn't talking to her anymore, she IMed me, and I blocked her right away. So she sent me this hurt email saying she only wanted to say she'd found caramel rolls for me. WTF? That friggin' scared me, because it was a stupid little convo several months ago that she wasn't even participating in. 2. Well, after I broke up with Steven, they start talking again. And she had this fairly filthy convo with him one night on aim. And she emailled that convo to xiggy. Why? I can only imagine she did that so that Xiggy would tell me and I would read it. The whole convo was pretty disgusting.
So, if you don't know her, be careful, she acts sweet, but if you know her long enough, she's *not*.
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Date: 2003-10-22 03:01 pm (UTC)Oboe > Hadla
~shig~
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Date: 2003-10-22 03:07 pm (UTC)Incidentally, some people disagree with me, so my thoughts should not be taken as the end of the subject.
Ya-oikes!
Date: 2003-10-22 03:32 pm (UTC)- TheAngryGecko
Crap on a crap cracker!
Date: 2003-10-22 05:47 pm (UTC)Gosh, if she starts on NC what she did on I/S...
Does Xiggy know? Wonder if Hadla knows Xiggy's on NC...
Ah...if she doesn't do anything on NC, I'll tolerate her and won't give her shit I don't need to post there. But that's it. From how she's starting out on NC ("Oh, you just posted that this is the wrong board, so that automatically makes your post a veiled attempt at hurting me! *goes into her corner*"), it looks like she hasn't changed.
-Phy
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Date: 2003-10-22 06:45 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2003-10-22 08:32 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2003-10-23 08:27 am (UTC)this should be fun...
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Date: 2003-10-23 01:32 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2003-10-22 03:01 pm (UTC)Oboe > Hadla
~shig~
no subject
Date: 2003-10-22 03:07 pm (UTC)Incidentally, some people disagree with me, so my thoughts should not be taken as the end of the subject.
Ya-oikes!
Date: 2003-10-22 03:32 pm (UTC)- TheAngryGecko
Crap on a crap cracker!
Date: 2003-10-22 05:47 pm (UTC)Gosh, if she starts on NC what she did on I/S...
Does Xiggy know? Wonder if Hadla knows Xiggy's on NC...
Ah...if she doesn't do anything on NC, I'll tolerate her and won't give her shit I don't need to post there. But that's it. From how she's starting out on NC ("Oh, you just posted that this is the wrong board, so that automatically makes your post a veiled attempt at hurting me! *goes into her corner*"), it looks like she hasn't changed.
-Phy
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Date: 2003-10-22 06:45 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2003-10-22 08:32 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2003-10-23 08:27 am (UTC)this should be fun...
no subject
Date: 2003-10-23 01:32 pm (UTC)