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Besides what you can step on, what can fall on your feet is a big BIG problem. I guess I'm super sensitive to that because I've broken my foot from things falling on it, and because of Dan's line of work, where foot injuries can happen, and steel toed boots are a requirement (another myth -- that your toes get chopped off or crushed from them).

Anyways, I honestly cannot think of any post I made in reply to a thing you've said. I've been skimming SO MUCH lately I probably haven't even read much. I *have* been commenting a lot about what goes on in my life, which has been frantic and hectic and stressful and a lot is going on.

But I can't even think of one post of late where you said anything that I found even mildly annoying.

Or do you think the poll I did was because I was annoyed? I was actually facinated by your poll and wanted to poll my readers! Other than that, it's all personal stuff that I am dealing with.

One thing though, Ted has become more aggressive, and grabbing my attention, and I MUST get up the moment it happens more or less. Or he stands on my chair and pulls my hair, etc. So sometimes when I see he is getting wound up, or if he is actually yanking the hairs out of my head or whatever, my comments have been sounding rather rude/direct. If I remember to do so, I do go back and say something, or try to say 'more later, somethings up' or whatever. And its not even that he is NEGATIVE and I give him attention, he just wants it more lately, and I put the kiddoes first. He's just more OBVIOUS about it now. (i.e. instead of screetching or something in a corner or a room, assuming that means come see me mom, he comes and gets me. Communicate better, I respond better. He's communicating better, so I am responding better. I get what he wants more often now.)

But if a post looks like an attack on you, do let me know...I usually am direct, and actually don't post often in my own LJ anymore when someone elsewhere bothers me, and in threads I tend to comment, and maybe reply once or twice (in a conflict) but if it is something I don't see an easy resolution to, I just let it go.