conuly

I agree that age has a lot to do with it, but also circumstances. There was a time when I was on a medication that just killed my sex drive. It was like 'oh penis, whatever' x.x

Since I got off that medication, I consider things to be more 'normal'. I also think it has to do with having a relationship or not. Like, if you have a ready supply of sex as opposed to not having it. When I wasn't in a relationship, I thought about it a lot less, because what's the point about thinking of something you can't get?

Anyways, right now, I'm 25 (nearly 26). I guess I think about it maybe 3-6 times a day. Usually in the evening before bed, when my fiance does anything remotely arousing, or when our rpg-characters get intimate. I asked him, and he's a 20 year old male... he said he thinks of it consiously about three times a day. In the morning when he wakes up, in the afternoon at some point before I get home, and in the evening while we're in bed, and he added the priviso that also when our rpg-characters get intimate.

Honest answer there for yas.