Well, the person who made the somewhat offensive comment hasn't commented.

[conuly]

It wasn't anybody who said "sure, tell me if it was me". So you can all breathe easy now.

Still not sure if I should call this person on zir (this is to confuse the subject, not because it's zir's prefered pronoun) comment/post.

I probably *will*. I'll make a filtered entry in a bit to Discuss What I Should Say, because, again, it's not a subject I'm an expert on, just enough to know "Um... this comment is wrong in ways I don't like".

Edit: She has. And I've replied to her. So you can stop worrying now.