Seneca and friends

May. 22nd, 2025 08:45 am
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This is one of a series of posts designed to support students and teachers looking at the Love and Relationships unit of the OCR Classical Civilization A-level. You can find all the posts in the series by clicking on the OCR Seneca hashtag.

When we expand our sense of what counts as a relationship for Seneca, we naturally come to the concept of friendship – a close relationship with another human. There’s a challenge for Stoicism here – friends run into the same problem as spouses when considered as indifferents, in that having friends might be considered a preferred indifferent, but it’s not something that’s necessary for virtue.

The Stoic sage, as you may recall, is entirely self-sufficient – he has everything within himself that he needs in order to live a good, a rational and a happy life. However, if this is the case, it’s perfectly reasonable to ask whether there is any point in having relationships with other humans – does that mean that friendships aren’t worthwhile? If it’s any consolation, this is exactly the question that Seneca puts in the mouth of Lucilius when he writes to him in the Moral Epistles, where he begins Letter 9 by saying “you desire to know whether Epicurus is right when, in one of his letters, he rebukes those who hold that the wise man is self-sufficient and for that reason does not stand in need of friendship” (trans. Gummere). The word Gummere translates as ‘in need of’, indigere, is a bit stronger than I think the English quite manages; ‘require’ might be better here, or ‘feel the absence of’. That is, the Stoics argue that the wise man will not mind if he does not have friends, because he is self-sufficient; Epicurus was clearly unconvinced by the argument.

In order to buy into the Stoic position, I think you also need to buy into the principle of indifferents. It isn’t that the wise man will not seek out friends if he is given the opportunity, or that he does not think that friendship has a value; it is that if, for whatever reason, he finds himself isolated on a desert island or left alone in the city during the summer, the absence of friends will not impact or damage his virtue, and thus his happiness. Since friends are a preferred indifferent, we will seek friendship; since they remain, nonetheless, an indifferent, if there are no friends (or no suitable friends) available, then that will not affect our ability to behave rationally and pursue virtue.

I mention the importance of suitable friends because the question of who one spends time one is something that Seneca feels it is important for Lucilius (along with his wider readership) to get his head around in the Moral Letters. He addresses this question right at the beginning of the collection, in Letter 3. The scenario Seneca sets up is that Lucilius has sent him a letter via someone described as an amicus or ‘friend’, but at the same time has told him not to discuss anything about Lucilius with him. This gives Seneca a springboard to essentially ask why on earth Lucilius is calling him a friend if he’s nothing of the kind, as if you call someone you don’t trust as you trust yourself, then you haven’t actually understood the true nature of friendship (3.2).

Seneca goes on to give guidance for how to make friends – think over whether to admin a person as a friend for a long time, but when you have made that decision, open up your whole self to them, and share all your worried and concerns (3.2-3). When you are with a friend, you should feel like you are with yourself (3.3). This is a very different standard of friendship than that which pervaded elite Roman circles, where amicitia formed an important part of the social obligations between politicians and business partners – Seneca asks for friendship to become elevated into something precious which supports us and guides us, not something that is cheaply given. In this, Seneca’s attitude to friendship is very similar to his attitude to marriage. Both friendship and marriage themselves, as abstract constructs, are indifferents; what makes the difference is the moral qualities of the people who enter into those relationships.

Book completed

May. 22nd, 2025 02:25 am
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Strangers in Their Own Land: Anger and Mourning on the American Right, by Arlie Russell Hochschild. In this 2016 book, a Berkeley sociologist shares the results of her extensive interviews with residents of the Lake Charles area in Louisiana, where people have mostly learned to ignore the heavy levels of pollution inflicted on them by the petroleum industry. I was interested in the book because she repeatedly uses the phrase “deep story,” which I’ve used in my own research to refer to the story-shaped beliefs groups tell themselves, like a need to make America “great again” or to invest in progress, etc. She uses the phrase differently – rather than societal meta-narratives, she’s focused on personal meta-narratives that gradually became ripe for others to turn into a group identity. At the time of her research, the Tea Party was that group, but of course many of these folks got excited by Trump and probably now identify as MAGA. Hochschild uses the analogy of waiting in line for the American Dream, and tells us that many of these people feel that other groups have gotten to cut ahead of them in that line, often (they believe) at the expense of their own tax dollars. They see the federal government as the villain and are probably delighted now that Trump is trying to gut it – oddly, many of them think that 40% of Americans work for the feds. Also, apparently it’s a big thing to them that Northerners want all Americans to be more sympathetic to groups that have historically struggled; they see this as an attempt to shame them, resent being told how they should feel, and apparently are thrilled that Trump says it’s fine to ignore or dismiss the needs of these groups. I especially enjoyed the short Appendix C, in which the author debunks many beliefs that were common in the community (like that 40% thing). Her goal was to create empathy for these people among her readers, but it was pretty exasperating to hear how they’ve embraced their own exploitation by multinational corporations and the super-rich.

Thursday: Painting Titles

May. 22nd, 2025 12:44 am
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Today's theme is painting titles. Much like Tuesday's theme, I struggled with how to describe this. Just prompt a painting title and writer, you are free to interpret the prompt as you want.

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I Can Complain About ANYTHING

May. 22nd, 2025 12:55 am
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EVENT CARDS GET!!!!!!!!!!! With more than 24 hours to go!!!!!!! :D


featuring my first ever Esu 5*!!! to be fair this is only his third, but the first two were gacha ones and I haven't been lucky enough to snag either yet ^^;;


and another green Subaru, but 1) his attribute has better synergy with my other green Trickstar cards and 2) he's got pretty damn good stats cuz he's a tour card~

Honestly, the set list of this tour has been really good! Tours can be such a grind if I don't vibe with the set list, so I'm really glad I like this one...since I am a little burnt out on jp events already ;w; I just don't wanna miss getting all the cards from this new chunk of Main Story, especially since I snagged all the 4piece ones last year.

I do have some mixed feelings on how they've structured some of the rewards for this tour. In the past, any backgrounds from an event have come from points rewards (usually around the 800k-1mil points mark, which is about where I end up if I'm not going for the 5*), with the option to purchase them later for a single memorial coin each if you missed them. Which is nice, because there are some really pretty backgrounds from past events that I've picked up because the price is right.

HOWEVER. In the current jp event, both 5* and one of the 4* have backgrounds that you unlock on the card (one background per card), which is something that usually only happens with cards from the gacha. There are also backgrounds from points rewards, so??? idk????? This means you'd have to spend 10-30 memorial coins per background, depending on the card you're snagging, which is kinda fuckin excessive. Like, okay, yes, you're getting a whole card and not just a background, but you're unable to even see a preview of the background if it's from a card.

Like many things with the big changes enstars has made this year, I'm on "wait and see" to, you know, see how I feel. It's just...a small thing but still one that makes me fussy. I know I'm actively playing in jp and keeping on top of events, but being able to snag older event backgrounds for a relatively cheap price has been really nice- in both jp and eng!


but I do like the fancy promenade in the mega sphere - courtesy of Esu's card ♥ - and I just had to put Kohaku and Madara there~ also pleased to have the SCR room outfit of demon Mama- everyone plz give me good luck at eventually getting the last two copies for the MV version!!!!

idk I'm not sure if I'm actually super upset or just fussy because I overdid myself doing a shit ton of dishes and other house cleaning related stuff today :T Also bleeding.

..........and maybe also because I've only gotten a couple hours of sleep the past few nights because I'm still trying to fix my sleep schedule D: Life is hard when you're nocturnal and/or depressed or something.


also it's my precious stupid bird son's birthday today!!!!!! featuring his 2024 birthday pasha card, because it's running in China this year ♪

okay that's enough I'm gonna grind the tour more (or maybe get back to making icons again...maybe)
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System Collapse, Martha Wells. I took a break from Murderbot to read a bunch of historical stuff, partly because I'd remembered that this wasn't as good as Network Effect. Which is true, but I still liked it better the second time around, though in some ways it's less of a fun read. I mentioned when reviewing the early books in the series is that part of the appeal is that while Murderbot is a huge bundle of anxiety, it's also stunningly competent in what it does, especially when it has a reason to care. However a lot of the first half of this book is Murderbot having to deal with stuff going on that is making it less competent, which is useful character development in that it gets to work more as part of a team, but means that the fun stuff is really loaded into the second half of the story.

(I have seen the first two episodes of the show, but would prefer to have this be a book-discussion-only zone.)

Fandom5K Pinch Hits due 28 June

May. 21st, 2025 10:03 pm
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Event: Fandom5K s a multi-fandom gift exchange for fic with a 5,000-word minimum and comics with a 5-page minimum
Event link: Rules and FAQ on AO3
Pinch hit link: At the DW community
Due date: 28 June, with a required check-in during the week of 7-14 June

Pinch hits available:

PH 2 - Blue Lock (Manga), 終わりのセラフ | Owari no Seraph | Seraph of the End (Anime & Manga), Fairy Tail

PH 5 - Temeraire - Naomi Novik, The Inheritance Cycle - Christopher Paolini, His Dark Materials - Philip Pullman

PH 7 - Dial M for Murder (1954), To Catch a Thief (1955), Dial M for Murder - Hatcher

PH 8 - Path of Night (Podcast), Vampire: The Masquerade - Various Authors (Choice of Games), Vampire: The Masquerade Port Saga (Podcast)

PH 9 - 終わりのセラフ | Owari no Seraph | Seraph of the End (Anime & Manga), Blue Lock (Manga), Fairy Tail

PH 10 - Doctor Who (1963), Dragon Age (Video Games), This is How You Lose the Time War - Amal El-Mohtar & Max Gladstone

PH 13 - The Elementalists (Visual Novel), Heart of Battle - Fay Ikin, Royal Affairs - Harris-Powell-Smith

PH 15 - Code Vein (Video Game), 神さまのいない日曜日 | Kamisama no Inai Nichiyoubi | Sunday Without God (Anime & Manga), Octopath Traveler II (Video Game), 刀使ノ巫女 | Toji no Miko | Katana Maidens (Anime), よるのないくに | Yoru no Nai Kuni | Nights of Azure (Video Games), Xenoblade Chronicles (Video Game)

PH 17 - Breaking Bad, Buffy the Vampire Slayer (TV), The Godfather (1972 1974 1990)

PH 18 - Ancient History RPF, Solstice (MoaCube Visual Novel), Crossover Fandom

PH 19 - Ace Combat (Video Games), Dishonored (Video Games), Warhammer 40k (Novels) - Various Authors

PH 20 - ATEEZ (Band), Blink-182 (Band), Men's Basketball RPF

PH 21 - Ranma 1/2, Lost Girl (TV), Star Trek: Lower Decks (Cartoon), Marvel (Comics), 超時空要塞マクロス | Super Dimension Fortress Macross

PH 22 - Sherlock Holmes - Arthur Conan Doyle, Sherlock Holmes - Arthur Conan Doyle, Sherlock Holmes (1984 TV), Sherlock Holmes (1984 TV), Sherlock Holmes: The Awakened (Video Game), Sherlock Holmes: The Awakened (Video Game), The Angel of the Crows - Katherine Addison, The Angel of the Crows - Katherine Addison, Battlestar Galactica (2003), Battlestar Galactica (2003), Babylon 5 (TV 1993), Babylon 5 (TV 1993)

PH 23 - Original Work, Crossover Fandom, BioShock 1 & 2 (Video Games), The Wheel of Time (TV), Tenet (2020)

Rec Lists for SNK, XMFC, The Untamed

May. 22nd, 2025 12:36 pm
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Over time I've made a few rec lists for friends and never thought to share them with the wider fandom, so I thought it would be nice to do that and post it here!

An SNK (specifically Levi/Eren) rec list from Aug. 13 2022 with 40 recs, split into CANON, CANON DIVERGENCE, REINCARNATION and ALTERNATE UNIVERSE.

Example recs:

Grown To Be Wild by graves
| T, 4k | Hanahaki. Eren wakes hours before dawn with his hands tearing at his throat.

Pinecones by ShamelesslyPoetic | G, 5k | While Eren is wandering in the forest, he meets a short, dark, handsome soldier and immediately falls in love.

Example recs:

Kiss and Tell by pearl_o | T, 2k | It's been a long time since Charles and Raven were able to sit down and really talk to each other, but the awkwardness of the occasion is lessened by a lot of red wine and comparing notes on something they have in common - namely, what Erik was like in bed.

Kintsugi by xtinethepirate | E, 49k | When Charles had told Hank there would be a time when they would all be together again, he hadn't meant immediately. In Charles’s mind, that indeterminate time was something more along the lines of “in a few months or a year, once Erik realized what a colossal ass he had been and Charles had stopped wanting to punch him again.”

An MDZS Fic Sampler with 16 fics, with a subsection of fics specifically where the Wen Remnants survive, posted on Apr. 22, 2020.

Example recs: 

Seldom All They Seem by fahye | 24k, E | He bows to Wei Wuxian, sword in hand, sleeves falling properly. Wei Wuxian bows in return, and the sect leaders begin the opening courtesies, and for all of ten minutes Lan Wangji is under the impression that he is betrothed to a boy who is perfectly normal and acceptable apart from an unfortunate tendency to fidget with his clothes. That impression does not last.

Operation Old Men by chiharu | 17k | An ill-fated parent teacher conference reunites Jin Ling's wayward uncle with Sizhui's father. AKA: A matchmaking disaster as told by Jin Ling, Sizhui, and Jingyi.

Pinch Hits (3 new)

May. 21st, 2025 10:00 pm
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Updated pinch hits here! Thanks very much to everyone who has claimed one. If you can claim one of these, please comment with your AO3 name and the number of the pinch hit you want. All comments are screened.

Like main assignments, these pinch hits are due on 28 June, and they require a check-in during the week of 7-14 June.

You may ask to exchange your assignment for an open pinch hit. If you are given that pinch hit and fulfill it, this won't count as a default. Please tell me in your comment requesting a pinch hit if you are asking to swap.


PH 2 - Blue Lock (Manga), 終わりのセラフ | Owari no Seraph | Seraph of the End (Anime & Manga), Fairy Tail )

PH 5 - Temeraire - Naomi Novik, The Inheritance Cycle - Christopher Paolini, His Dark Materials - Philip Pullman )

PH 7 - Dial M for Murder (1954), To Catch a Thief (1955), Dial M for Murder - Hatcher )

PH 8 - Path of Night (Podcast), Vampire: The Masquerade - Various Authors (Choice of Games), Vampire: The Masquerade Port Saga (Podcast) )

PH 9 - 終わりのセラフ | Owari no Seraph | Seraph of the End (Anime & Manga), Blue Lock (Manga), Fairy Tail )

PH 10 - Doctor Who (1963), Dragon Age (Video Games), This is How You Lose the Time War - Amal El-Mohtar & Max Gladstone )

PH 13 - The Elementalists (Visual Novel), Heart of Battle - Fay Ikin, Royal Affairs - Harris-Powell-Smith )

PH 15 - Code Vein (Video Game), 神さまのいない日曜日 | Kamisama no Inai Nichiyoubi | Sunday Without God (Anime & Manga), Octopath Traveler II (Video Game), 刀使ノ巫女 | Toji no Miko | Katana Maidens (Anime), よるのないくに | Yoru no Nai Kuni | Nights of Azure (Video Games), Xenoblade Chronicles (Video Game) )

PH 17 - Breaking Bad, Buffy the Vampire Slayer (TV), The Godfather (1972 1974 1990) )

PH 18 - Ancient History RPF, Solstice (MoaCube Visual Novel), Crossover Fandom )

PH 19 - Ace Combat (Video Games), Dishonored (Video Games), Warhammer 40k (Novels) - Various Authors )

PH 20 - ATEEZ (Band), Blink-182 (Band), Men's Basketball RPF )

PH 21 - Ranma 1/2, Lost Girl (TV), Star Trek: Lower Decks (Cartoon), Marvel (Comics), 超時空要塞マクロス | Super Dimension Fortress Macross )

PH 22 - Sherlock Holmes - Arthur Conan Doyle, Sherlock Holmes - Arthur Conan Doyle, Sherlock Holmes (1984 TV), Sherlock Holmes (1984 TV), Sherlock Holmes: The Awakened (Video Game), Sherlock Holmes: The Awakened (Video Game), The Angel of the Crows - Katherine Addison, The Angel of the Crows - Katherine Addison, Battlestar Galactica (2003), Battlestar Galactica (2003), Babylon 5 (TV 1993), Babylon 5 (TV 1993) )

PH 23 - Original Work, Crossover Fandom, BioShock 1 & 2 (Video Games), The Wheel of Time (TV), Tenet (2020) )

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 Only a few weeks away and we have great news! The panel ballot is open for voting! So, get your votes in now before we close the panel ballot on June 6th. And it’s not too late to submit panels! You have the opportunity to submit a write-in panel on the panel ballot. Voting will be open until June 6th.
 
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The good new is

May. 21st, 2025 10:13 pm
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It's not covid or flu. The bad news is it's viral so here are some heavy cough suppressants, bye bye. I got a lot worse around 5 this morning so I went to the urgent care and then on to the hotel.

She was like you want to wait a half hour for the verdict on covid/flu? Yes because you want to give me tamiflu/whatever that drug is for covid if it is. I'm going downtown Pittsburgh which is a nightmare (even though it's like 10 miles away it takes a halfhour to get there because you have 4 lanes of traffic going thru a 2 lane tunnel that spits you out on a 4 lane bridge with less than 500 yards to make your choice and god help you if you don't know where your exit is because Pittsburgh is on a triangle of land and you WILL have to go around for the next 20 minutes trying to get to the damn place you missed.

While I was in the urgent care a huge storm popped up, worse than I thought. even though I'm parked like 10 yards away I'm DRENCHED by the time I get to the car to the point my jeans look fresh from the washer wet. I go for an early dinner at my favorite chinese place while CVS fills my script.

Get to CVS it's a mad house. The storm knocked out the system and my stuff isn't ready.

By the time I get to Pittsburgh the flooding has started. I can't find my keys in my purse to give to the valet (he gave up and had me leave them in the car) and I scored the BEST room. I'm on the top floor with a view of the Point which is a Pittsburgh highlight.

I said I wasn't going to the mixer but I wanted my stuff for the convention tonight so I can plan for tomorrow (I think I'll be skipping some just so I can be fresh for MY presentation and I know it'll be a lot for me) I had to go into the mixer to get it and two gins and tonic jumped down my throat. Don't know how that happened.

At least my throat is less sore but my cough is making my hernia hurt.

Scroll to the end for pictures but first books!

What I Just Finished Reading:

Spinning Silver by Naomi Novik.

We Can Never Leave - H.E. Edgmon

the flipside, a graphic novel


What I am Currently Reading:
Of Manners and Murder - historical mystery

Last Dance Before Dawn by Katharine Schellman which is the final book in the series...that I never read but didn't know that when I requested it on Netgalley so far so good set in a speakeasy


What I Plan to Read Next:
Under This Red Rock - need to finish this

Have the view from 24 floors up

the point

Da liberty bridge (that I was talking about)

When the sun came out just at sundown

第四年第一百三十二天

May. 22nd, 2025 09:56 am
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部首
儿 part 1 (ér, child)
儿, child/son; 允, permit; 元, fundamental/original pinyin )
https://www.mdbg.net/chinese/dictionary?cdqrad=10

语法
Chapter 17: Complements of completion
https://routledgetextbooks.com/textbooks/9781138651142/quizzes.php

词汇
输, to lose (a game); 输入, import/input; 运输, transport pinyin )
https://mandarinbean.com/new-hsk-3-word-list/

Guardian:
和儿子拥抱的感觉如何, how did it feel to hug your son?
我修好了, I fixed it
还真不知道是谁输谁赢呢, I really wouldn’t know who lost and who won.

Me:
我总算学会了这颗语法。
用这台电脑输入拼音真的麻烦。

Lake Lewisia #1254

May. 21st, 2025 05:40 pm
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As not every community hosted a church, so too were they not all protected by a church grim. Increasingly, households had to be communities of their own, and so their first dead had to take on the role of guardian. That often ended up being an ill-fated houseplant, leaving homes protected against danger and sorrow by fierce countertop basils or aggressive window violets.

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LL#1254

New Journal for Personal Life

May. 21st, 2025 08:32 pm
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 I have been thinking of ways to feel more comfortable, and I've decided to move more in-depth talk of my personal life to [personal profile] alienteeth . Feel free to subscribe and I'll grant you access. I'll still be doing some personal talk here though.
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I have made it without incident to the parents. The flight landed early and then bus arrived early. My father picked me up after dropping my mother off for her cardio rehab, so we managed a quick grocery store run before we had to go pick her up. My father is now taking a walk, which sounded good to me - so much sitting today! - but I'm just too fucking tired. I'm afraid to lie down as it's not quite 5pm here. I got about 2 hours of sleep last night and I dozed for maybe an hour on the plane. Early to bed tonight!
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BUFFY: (talking to Angel) Don't talk to me like that! *You* may be ready to go, but *I* am not ready to lose you. Okay, this is my fight, and if you won't do it my way, then you're...
She is interrupted by Xander clearing his throat. She turns to face him.
XANDER: (grins) Hey. I've got this, um... There's this, uh... (grins sheepishly)
Buffy and Angel look at him expectantly. Xander sees the sadness in their faces and the tear streaks on Buffy's cheeks.
XANDER: (awkwardly) It's probably a bad time.

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May. 21st, 2025 07:10 pm
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⌈ Secret Post #6711 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.


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Westercon Bid Update

May. 21st, 2025 04:03 pm
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I updated the Santa Clara in 2027 Westercon Bid announcement post to include links to the filing documents from SPSF's bid.

This is the first time since 2019 (when there were two bids on the ballot at the Layton Westercon/NASFiC) that there have been any bids listed on the ballot. There was a double postponement, followed by a cancellation, Tonopah, another cancellation (both of which meant that year's Westercon happened at Loscon), then a couple of years with Direct Awards by the Business Meeting, then at Salt Lake City we had a filed write-in bid. This year finally breaks that string, even though it did take Kayla realizing that she and the SPSF folks were talking past each other and got things straightened out.

Almost there! Almost! (Retirement)

May. 21st, 2025 03:50 pm
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Ticked off two more things on the retirement checklist this morning: getting copies of the two paystubs that I was still missing, and getting my official "retirement gift" from the attaboy catalog. As usual, the catalog offerings were mostly either "already have one" or "no use for this" but in the end I settled on a wet/dry shop vac. You know, in the event that I ever get back to doing carpentry projects or whatnot. After you pick your primary gift, they roll you over into the gift card section, where you pick gift cards until you run out of remaining balance. So I currently have $250 worth of gift cards for Black Angus Steakhouse that I will be looking for a special occasion to use.

Most of the IRA activity is complete -- I have confirmation and documents for one of the annuities and for the managed fund (the "pretend this doesn't exist for now" fund). I should get the confirmation and paperwork for the other annuity shortly. I've updated my budget projections spreadsheet and concluded that the annuities are probably over-deducting for taxes, but I think I'll let it ride for now. This year is going to be completely weird for income taxes and I'd rather get a refund than have to pay. Next year I can fine tune things, and the year after that I should be able to predict fairly precisely.

Oh, and still waiting on Social Security to come through. I think on Friday I'll do another round of sitting on the phone to check in. (I check the website almost every day, on the chance that an approval will show up there before I get it in the mail.)

In the mean time, I'm continuing with an overstuffed calendar. Mon/Tues in Stockton to run medical errands for my dad. This morning recording an interview for the podcast, then working with the electrician who will be re-doing my electrical panel. In a couple hours I'll do a guest appearance by zoom for a college class that read one of my books. Tomorrow the electrician starts and completes the panel work, mostly while I'm out of the house for a combined bike ride and routine medical check-up. (I figure since they sent me a pre-work questionnaire about my exercise, I'll properly impress them if I show up in my bike togs all sweaty.) Online Wiscon is this weekend, then Monday the HVAC folks come to do my annual maintenance. And then I have nothing extra scheduled for a week and a half before the Nebula conference (which I'm attending virtually). June is pretty empty at this point, but the way things have been going, who knows?

In less than seven seconds flat

May. 21st, 2025 11:41 pm
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Old Kidderminster Fire Station, 21st May 2025
110/365: Old Kidderminster Fire Station
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Nothing much to report from today, other than that I hope soon to post a film review, something I apparently haven't done since February! Today's photo comes from the thrilling metropolis that is Kidderminster. So good they named it once. This is the old fire station that was replaced in 2020 by the big hub that also spelled the end of Bewdley's fire station (see yesterday's 365 pic). By the time this 1929 station was finally decommissioned it was over 90 years old and so very cramped for modern fire engines. The building itself won't last much longer, as the site is slated to be redeveloped, I think for flats.

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May. 21st, 2025 02:36 pm
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Silly Jenn Fact: If given acidy citrusy type fruit (also Watermelon), I will salt that thing until it tastes like gatorade. I'll do the same for juices.

One of my fave drinks is to take watermelon puree, add cumin, mint and SO MUCH SALT.

What I'm Doing Wednesday

May. 21st, 2025 04:33 pm
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The Hidden Story of the Mahabharata: With Inner Meanings from Paramhansa Yogananda by Nayaswami Gyandev. A classic for a reason. The annotations are useful, too.

Sweet Obsession (Dark Olympus, #8) by Katee Robert. 3.5 stars. I love this series. Good m/m romance, though this wasn't the best of the series. Looking forward to the December release getting deeper into the A-plot.

not quite finished with: Breathing Mindfulness: Discovering the Riches at the Heart of the Buddhist Path by Sarah Shaw. A history of Theravada Buddhism in southeast Asia. The roots of where modern mindfulness meditation came from.

next up: the new Vivan Shaw Doctor Greta Helsing book!

healthcrap
I changed my night guard and have been living in a trigeminal neuralgia flare ever since (like living in a nonstop migraine). I found some more of the old type of guards in a cabinet, though, so hopefully tonight will be better. Also, rt shoulder is sore since stopping PT and getting myself to DO PT on my own is so very hard. Also not succeeding at doing any Pilates while feeling so crummy. Lucky to do my 33 minutes of yoga. :/

dirt )

#resist
May 20 to 26: Walmart Boycott 2
June 1: Pride LGBTQ Protest
June 3 to 9: Target Boycott
June 14: Flag Day & No King's Day (Trump's Birthday) Protest
June 19: Juneteenth Protest
June 27: Stonewall Anniversary Protest
June 24 to 30: McDonald’s Boycott
July 4: Independence Day Boycott and Protest

I hope y'all are all doing well! <333

Wednesday Reading Meme

May. 21st, 2025 05:31 pm
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What I Just Finished Reading

Nothing. My ability to finish reading books has declined a lot, I guess.

What I'm Reading Now

Comics Wednesday!

Fantastic Four #32, Iron Man #8, Superior Avengers #2, Thunderbolts Doomstrike #5, Ultimates #12, Vision and the Scarlet Witch #1 )

What I'm Reading Next

Still very slowly reading a book about the World Series.

Check-In Post - May 21st 2025

May. 21st, 2025 09:24 pm
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Hello to all members, passers-by, curious onlookers, and shy lurkers, and welcome to our regular daily check-in post. Just leave a comment below to let us know how your current projects are progressing, or even if they're not.

Checking in is NOT compulsory, check in as often or as seldom as you want, this community isn't about pressure it's about encouragement, motivation, and support. Crafting is meant to be fun, and what's more fun than sharing achievements and seeing the wonderful things everyone else is creating?

There may also occasionally be questions, but again you don't have to answer them, they're just a way of getting to know each other a bit better.


This Week's Question: We all probably have multiple WiPs, but which of yours has been hanging around longest, waiting to be finished?


If anyone has any questions of their own about the community, or suggestions for tags, questions to be asked on the check-in posts, or if anyone is interested in playing check-in host for a week here on the community, which would entail putting up the daily check-in posts and responding to comments, go to the Questions & Suggestions post and leave a comment.

I now declare this Check-In OPEN!



ESC 2025 - Random thoughts

May. 21st, 2025 10:06 pm
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1) Norway - Boring, average dance song with a silly show
2) Luxembourg - Poppy, catchy and fun song with a fitting and fun show
3) Estonia - Fun song but the singer was instantly unsympathetic
4) Israel - Pretty but boring
5) Lithunania - 90s Emorock, I liked it
6) Spain - Typical ESC dance song but catchy. Also, good voice.
7) Ukraine - Felt confusing, like a drug dream.
8) United Kingdom - ABBA meets old school UK girl-band. Fun.
9) Austria - Amazing voice, hast more impact than other calm songs. Also cool show.
10) Island - Sounds like Austrian Malle pop meets Irish folk. Not my thing.
11) Latvia - Folklore techno vibes, bit boring. But it would make great background music for Wheel of Time and Lord of the Rings
12) Netherlands Feels more like a traditional ESC song, great voice and feeling for the song.
13) Finland - Tried too hard to be very sexy and utterly fails.
14) Italy - Great voice and melody and text. My fav.
15) Poland - Ah, there it is, that ESC Song. :D
16) Germany – It's pretty much what's in right now in Germany. I thought it was catchy.
17) Greece - Bit boring with nice moments.
18) Armenia - Kinda fun if simple.
19) Switzerland - Very much chanson-style. Pretty but you need  to be in the mood for it.
20) Malta - US Female rapper meets random pop
21) Portugal - Old sixty-style song. Very relaxed. I liked it well enough.
22) Denmark - Very standard European dance track.
23) Sweden - Had some fun moments but without understanding it, it didn't really work for me.
24) France - Oh look, it's a pretty chanson. What a surprise.
25) San Marino - 90s DJ stuff. Simple but very catchy. I liked it.
26) Albania - Very Albanian Song.

Prompt 2490: Mountain

May. 21st, 2025 09:30 pm
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Today's prompt is: mountain



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wait, what?

May. 21st, 2025 08:52 pm
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It's been almost two months since I've posted here?!
  1. That can't be right. But it is??

  2. I mean, I have been in a complete slump for nearly three months now, and today is the first day in ages that I don't feel like a zombie, but still. How did that happen?!

  3. It didn't and doesn't feel like I was away from here for that long at all!

  4. But I guess that's because I've actually been commenting a lot - I've been on DW! I've been reading my flist, and replying to posts and comments! And I've been part of the 60-billion-comment club over at [community profile] sid_guardian, aka the excellent Guardian discussions happening in the comments of the novel readalong posts, and [personal profile] china_shop's delightful drama polls, where we can't shut up about our fandom. *g*

  5. What I haven't done in all that time is any real writing, other than the one exchange fic that went live last night. Just a bunch of alibi sentences and false starts. Pretty sure that made the zombie issue worse; I always feel worse when I'm not writing. But in addition to the slump, time and energy have both been at a low ebb.

  6. So, uh, yeah. Two months! For reasons, but I'm glad to finally be breaking that streak.

In conclusion, hi, everyone! I hope to actually post more again now, and not fall into a slump again right away. (Fingers crossed!)

Coming soon (I HOPE): Guardian 520 Day Reverse Exchange reveals (preview: I wrote a fic! I got fantastic artwork for one of my fics! There's a delightful bounty of stuff in the collection that I need to sit down to properly enjoy and comment on!) and also other updates.
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So it looks like, between the Tumblr and DW post, that extending the sign-ups would be something y'all want. So the sign-ups are now officially extended to **May 28th**! I'll still be posting the first check-in form tomorrow, and instead of staying open for one week it will stay open for two this round.

Inspiration

May. 21st, 2025 02:11 pm
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My lungs cleared up! I can breathe again!

Before my lungs cleared up, I had no idea how compromised I was. I mean, I could feel the stiffness in my chest, and logically I know I know that if you can't breathe well, you don't take in enough oxygen, which leads to air hunger, which leads to shortness of breath with physical exertion—but I wasn't connecting the dots.

I was thinking the fatigue I was feeling when exercising was due to some sudden acceleration in the physical aging process! I am 73! And after all, that is old!

And 73 continues to be old—but still, when I went to the gym yesterday, for my weights circuit and 30-minute cardiovascular workout (spinning), I felt great!

Though two days before, I'd been laboring for breath and my muscles had actually been aching with the lifting effort (lactic acid buildup.)

I have no idea why my lungs cleared up. Did some lethal allergen finally disappear from the air? Did some nasty virus finally run its course?

But I am grateful, Universe!

###

Other than that...

I've been busily generating income, watching instructional videos on making AI videos, and trying to think of ways to expand my social life in the here and now.

Basically, I'm resentful about the first because I think I deserve a MacArthur Genius Grant for pursuing the second, and if the kiskas and Black Chicken would only learn to speak English, I wouldn't have to worry at all about the third.

###

I'm trying to identify the video creation service with the best bang for the buck, but that's difficult because right now AI video is in its gold rush phase. There is no available enterprise software; there are literally dozens of AIV engines attached to subscription services, new workflow and pipeline technologies are constantly raising the bar, and the state of the art is changing on a weekly—sometimes daily—basis.

This one was done on the Chinese AI video engine Kling. I reused my calico cat prompt. I actually like the one I did on NightCafe (same starting prompt) better for sheer fantasia. But there's no denying this one has a higher degree of photo realism.



Thing is, though, I'm not big on photo realism.

I much prefer fantastical imagery and animation.
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Chapter 1: I previously read the first 16 chapters. Let's see how much I remember! In this chapter, we meet the guys who will be part of the 'spell' and a girl from the girl's academy who will get involved. The transformation happens and all but one of them come together in a classroom.

Chapter 2-3: The guys realize it happens when it rains a lot. Haruto, the dorm supervisor who's been letting them stay over it when it happens, contacts the girl's academy headmistress for help. Haruto helps Hazuki try on the girl's school uniform but trips and lands on him right when his friend Jouji walks in;;

I'm curious if Haruto has a secret and who Kaoruko thought of when they were talking.

Chapter 4: Hold up...Haruto already had one girl's uniform in his house, there was the girl from the flashback and her saying she needed to tell Kaoruko something... I want to guess that Haruto is a trans man but I may be reaching because it's a gender bender manga...

Chapter 5: Why assume all the 'girls' were from America, why couldn't they say they were from like Spain so that they wouldn't have to worry about someone trying to speak to them in English?

Hazuki gets invited to a movie by Asumi and forgets he's a 'girl' and it's not a date, but the other guys support him. Also meanwhile they talk about their love lives. 'Maki' had a fiancee? 'Madoka' currently has one. No one else is dating. Hazuki turned back into a guy and gets stuck in the women's bathroom at the theater.

I found my initial notes the first time I read it! From 2013...

old comments

Chapter 2: I really like how the appearance change from male to female was mostly subtle. They didn't all sprout moe eyes and super long hair or big boobs. It'd be really nice if this manga were more about the characters rather than 'how different the genders are'/how much it can be exploited.

I look forward to finding out more about the characters! They all seem really interesting so far, but I haven't been about to remember all their names yet.

Chapter 4: It doesn't matter what body parts they have, they're all still guys in gender. I like that they don't talk to each other any different than when in their usual state. I also liked the part where they noticed they were sitting with their legs open on the train and had to fix that, because they were wearing skirts. XP Nice touch.

Chapter 5: Sometimes I just don't get how guys think about girls (mainly how it's depicted in some shoujo manga). :/ They're not cattle, just because some guys are physically stronger doesn't mean they have all the advantages against girls.

Poor Maki, I wonder what his secret is... Same with Haruto, seems like there was a girl in his past?

Hazuki/Asumi is cute, if it was yuri I'd be okay with that pairing.

Read-in-Progress Wednesday

May. 21st, 2025 11:09 am
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This is your weekly read-in-progress post for you to talk about what you're currently reading and reactions and feelings (if any)!

For spoilers:

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This is an offer of the Awfully Cheerful Engine RPG from EN Publishing, described as a cinematic pop-culture action-comedy RPG.

https://bundleofholding.com/presents/Cheerful



This one is interesting - the rules system is deliberately kept simple and easy to understand, using mechanics seen previously in games like the Ghostbusters RPG, and the book contains eight fairly detailed settings with adventures. Inspiration for the settings/adventures includes big city ghost-chasing, archeological adventuring, a "high school with weird science" setting, teenage mutant thingies, and so forth. It's fun and cheap, and definitely well worth a look if you like its freewheeling style of play, and it should be easy to adapt the adventures to any RPG that isn't too rules-heavy, or import adventures for other system-light games to this one. Recommended!
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Folklore and the original fairy tale sources could be very dark, many with true horror elements.
There's nothing sweet or innocent about these old stories.
Every Wednesday, we'll post a folklore or fairy tale quote to jumpstart your vampiric muse.

Please post your Dracula / Nosferatu inspired fic as a stand-alone in the community, and use the header below (or similar). And please put your story behind a cut.

Title:
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Title: Party Downer
Fandom: BtVS
Author: [personal profile] badly_knitted
Characters: Buffy.
Rating: PG
Written For: Challenge 450: Amnesty 45, using Challenge 429: Party.
Spoilers/Setting: Retitle Boy.
Summary: Buffy has gone off parties.
Disclaimer: I don’t own BtVS, or the characters.
A/N: Double drabble.



Party Downer



Round 168: Werewolf's Genesis

May. 21st, 2025 12:47 pm
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1.John/Jack Kiss Kiss in blue          2.Buffy framed in aqua          3.Anya in soft purple
1. Torchwood                2.--3. Buffy the Vampire Slayer (TV)
 
 
URLs/Credits )
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Title: Undimmed
Fandom: FAKE
Author: [personal profile] badly_knitted
Characters: Ryo, Dee.
Rating: PG
Written For: Challenge 450: Amnesty 45, using Challenge 116: Silver.
Setting: Many years the manga.
Summary: Dee and Ryo aren’t as young as they used to be.
Disclaimer: I don’t own FAKE, or the characters. They belong to the wonderful Sanami Matoh.
A/N: Double drabble.



Undimmed

A kind message

May. 21st, 2025 01:18 pm
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Seen yesterday

Write Every Day - May 2025 - Day 21

May. 21st, 2025 06:35 pm
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beep boop clock in here

(I will have finally time to catch up with comments tomorrow, apologies if I missed anything important in the past couple of days! Everybody should be checked in properly for all days, though.)

Welcome post.

Days 1-7 )

Days 8-14 )

Day 15: [personal profile] china_shop, [personal profile] goddess47, [personal profile] sylvanwitch, [personal profile] badly_knitted, [personal profile] larryhammer, [personal profile] luzula, [personal profile] trobadora, [personal profile] sanguinity, [personal profile] chanter1944, [personal profile] cornerofmadness, [personal profile] carenejeans, [personal profile] yasaman, [personal profile] kissed, [personal profile] ysilme

Day 16: [personal profile] china_shop, [personal profile] stonepicnicking_okapi, [personal profile] kissed, [personal profile] badly_knitted, [personal profile] sylvanwitch, [personal profile] larryhammer, [personal profile] trobadora, [personal profile] brithistorian, [personal profile] cornerofmadness, [personal profile] yasaman, [personal profile] carenejeans, [personal profile] luzula, [personal profile] ysilme

Day 17: [personal profile] goddess47, [personal profile] trobadora, [personal profile] badly_knitted, [personal profile] sylvanwitch, [personal profile] sanguinity, [personal profile] cornerofmadness, [personal profile] carenejeans, [personal profile] luzula, [personal profile] china_shop, [personal profile] yasaman, [personal profile] ysilme, [personal profile] kissed

Day 18: [personal profile] china_shop, [personal profile] sylvanwitch, [personal profile] goddess47, [personal profile] badly_knitted, [personal profile] brithistorian, [personal profile] cornerofmadness, [personal profile] yasaman, [personal profile] ysilme, [personal profile] kissed, [personal profile] trobadora

Day 19: [personal profile] badly_knitted, [personal profile] kissed, [personal profile] larryhammer, [personal profile] sylvanwitch, [personal profile] brithistorian, [personal profile] cornerofmadness, [personal profile] goddess47, [personal profile] nafs, [personal profile] yasaman, [personal profile] china_shop, [personal profile] trobadora

Day 20: [personal profile] china_shop, [personal profile] goddess47, [personal profile] badly_knitted, [personal profile] larryhammer, [personal profile] sylvanwitch, [personal profile] cornerofmadness, [personal profile] brithistorian, [personal profile] yasaman, [personal profile] kissed

Day 21: [personal profile] china_shop

Remember that you are free to check in at any time for past days as well, just comment on the most recent post with what days you are checking in for!
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Not even gonna hide the lede: THIS IS MY FAVE CDRAMA OF THE PAST 2 YEARS. It first aired in December 2024.


The premise

The story is abt Dou Zhao (played by Meng Ziyi). She's in her early 30s and has been married for over a decade to a guy she'd entered into an arranged marriage with. It's been a good life for the most part. The marriage isn't a passionate one, BUT Dou Zhao takes her role as wife v. seriously (including administrating the home AND some of her husband's business.) The first episode is set a year after she had a miscarriage (this is, IIRC, only mentioned in the first episode.) However, the loss affected her health to the point that she knows she's dying. (It's not explained what it is, but whenever she coughs and covers her mouth with a handkerchief, there's blood on it.)

ANYWAYS, one day, Dou Zhao finds out that her husband has been cheating on her with her OWN SISTER. It leads to a really bad confrontation (which includes an accusation from her sister to Dou Zhao abt their mother's death.) Betrayed and heartbroken (she might've not loved the guy, but she did cared abt him), Dou Zhao makes a public announcement that she's getting a divorce and leaves with her personal maid.

Because there's an actual coup happening in the capital (where one of the princes is deposing the emperor with the help of General Song Mo ((Li Yunri), the best general in the entire army), Dou Zhao has to go to her hometown to file the divorce. Along the way, an accident happens. She's rescued by Song Mo (!!!)--who is now at odds with the rebel prince-cum-new-emperor.

A monk named Yi Jong (played Xia Zhiguang) shows up and invites Dou Zhao and everyone else to his temple cuz a snowstorm is imminent. While there, Dou Zhao and Song Mo have a conversation that goes on until daybreak. Yi Jong comments something abt how the two of them are connected (cuz he saw it in the heavens.)

In the morning, when everyone starts to get ready to leave the temple, who shows up but Wang Ge (played by Du Yiheng) who is the head eunuch AND Wei Tingyu (played by Li Xinze) who is Dou Zhao's husband. They ACCUSE HER AND SONG MO OF BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP which the new emperor says is treason. So they have to be executed. They've brought a few soldier squads with them.

Song Mo's like "Bitch, what are y'all even talking abt?" And calls his own regiments to action.

A battle begins.

In the middle of all that, Yi Jong leads Dou Zhao, her maid, and Song Mo in the the direction of a secret passage out of the temple. Along the way, Dou Zhao's maid is killed and Yi Jong is mortally wounded. Before he dies, he repeats that he'd seen how there was a huge calamity happening, but within it there was a miracle. Also that Dou Zhao and Song Mo's destinies are connected. Then he hands Dou Zhao a v. special book, telling her that the book is a key to fix everything that has gone wrong. After that, he's dunzo.

Dou Zhao and Song Mo are running away when someone shoots an arrow that's so powerful it goes thru Song Mo AND Dou Zhao. The momentum is such that it pulls them into a chasm!

As the two of them fall and are dying, Dou Zhao thinks abt what her life had been like and wishing things had been different. She holds onto the book. Suddenly, instead of falling, she starts to float up. A drop of Song Mo's blood floats out of his body and embeds itself in the back of Dou Zhao's right ear. It becomes a red beauty mark.

She then wakes up in a new life, TWENTY YEARS IN THE PAST, with full memories of her first life AND her awareness as a 30-something year old. BUT NOW SHE'S IN HER OWN BODY WHEN SHE WAS 10 YEARS OLD!!!

Talk abt a record scratch moment! (and it's all filmed super exquisitely too.)


I first heard abt this drama toward the end of last year. The buzz was THAT strong. Fast-forward to early January this year when I decided to give it a try. IIRC, I ended watching all 34 episodes in A WEEK!!! XD

There's a TON I like abt this series. The plot, pacing, cinematography, casting, and acting were great. Motivations for the good characters AND the villains mostly made sense (there's one villain character I'll talk abt in my criticisms).

Another thing I dug abt this show was seen how Dou Zhao's meddling in her second life affected everyone else's life. Frex, some characters who had been good ppl in the first life become villains in the second one and vice versa. Because she's the viewers' touchstone in terms of this new life, it's fairly easy to side with her and, as a result, be suspicious of others' motivations. And also be shocked when a villain in Life 1 becomes an ally in Life 2.

The show has a fantastic balance of angst and humor too! Plus at least 2 extra layers of 💜GOOD ROMANCE, Y'ALL.💜

THE CP, Y'ALL. FUCKING *CHEF'S KISS* . Like, even before they get together, they have AN INCANDESCENT kind of chemistry. It's IMPOSSIBLE to not cheer for them. Theirs is a FREAK4FREAKLOVER relationship (with Dou Zhao being the FREAK (affectionately) and Song Mo being v. happy as the FREAKLOVER.)

They're also a bona fide, certified, and feared POWER COUPLE. Like, there's a moment in the story when they two of them are truly, 100% just chilling out at home…and yet some of the villains are STRESSING THE FUCK OUT cuz they're sure that Dou Zhao and Song Mo are planning stuff to bring them down, hahah. Then the scene cuts to a sweet moment between the CP.

This isn't exactly a spoiler, BUT I'm sure there are ppl who don't want to know anything abt the CP, so I'm gonna be considerate and throw in a

SPOILER WARNING
I really, really liked how the show reversed the expectations w/r/t the roles within the relationship. Because, once they get together, Dou Zhao slides into a soft femdome role. She takes care of Song Mo (bathing him in one scene) in a way that's not subservient at all. He's a leader in his own right yet he's a total softie with his wife. She's strong for him even when there doesn't seem to be any hope in the horizon.


One thing I really, really fancied abt this CP is that there's no misunderstanding OR hints of cheating or actual cheating in their romance. They hold each other's hearts thru this life, the previous one, and the many other ones to come. This show makes that v. fucking clear. One final thing I like abt this CP is that they most deffo fuck (not, like, onscreen cuz, LOL, it's a C Drama and so it had to pass censorship). However, there's a carnal aspect to the relationship that's part of their bond. Though it's technically true that Dou Zhao is a virgin in Life 2, she's playfully sensual with Song Mo (to the point of teasing him aaaalmost without meaning to, heheh) here and there.


Do I have any criticisms?

The last ONE FOURTH of the drama has a character having a v. random heel turn. For which I do blame the otherwise amazing script. As I understand it, there are a lot of hints throughout the novel (this drama is based on) of the character either being morally gray (if not 100% evil.) However, in the show, the character becomes a monster for a reason that doesn't convince me at all. I get that there wasn't enough time, but there we are.

IMO, eps. 24-27 the show gets a bit weird cuz the character's heel turn occurs and you're literally like ?????. IJS

There were also two secondary couples I didn't care abt at all. However, the show focused a bit too much on them.


What's the FMC's plot armor level?

Low-Medium.

Bad things DO happen to Dou Zhao, stuff she has to recover from (mainly physically). Occasionally, she does get outsmarted by the villains and, sometimes, her memories from Life 1 do mess her up in LIfe 2 (assuming a character is good or evil, frex) from time to time.

IMO, the show didn't exactly protected her (the way I saw with Fangfei in The Double and Niaoniao in Love Like the Galaxy.) Her knowledge and training (via the combination of her memories and the book Yi Jong gave her) explain why she's able to weasel her way out of most predicaments. Though, again, she' s not infallible either.


How does the show handle the inevitable "Oh noes, the emperor's in danger of losing his throne!" storyline?

It's fine. The bulk of the struggle kicks off around ep. 25, but the story keeps things even between that and the CP's romance. I didn't feel one way or another abt the emperor in this drama. There are both external and internal reasons why he is the way he is. Tan Kai as the emperor did a good turn in the role.


How does it address/works with the trope?

IT'S ONE OF THE BEST EXAMPLES OF THE WOMAN SET ON REVENGE/COLD GENERAL. Hits every point from Dou Zhao's initial disinterest in Song Mo, her revenge plans, Song Mo being mesmerized by her everything, him having a strong presence and being a fierce fighter, etc.

In a scale of Somewhat Threatening (1) to Having MURDER FACE 24/7/365 (10), I'm placing Song Mo at 8, i.e. Expect A Painful Death If You Ever Cross Him. Although he softens up a ton once he and Dou Zhou are an official couple.


Do I recommend it?

OFC, I DO!! It's a show that gives you action, angst, romance, and a v. entertaining journey. The HEA ending is a delight (including the quick epilogue/stinger at the end of ep. 34.) I'm giving it a 4.7 out of 5. Watched it on YouTube at least twice now. #NoRegrets


Queerness level

It's low. There's one (1) instance of a platonic soulmates dynamic that could be read as queerplatonic, maybe? Though that depends a lot on whether or not one would see one half of the ship as asexual. IDK. I did read it as such, YMMV. Interestingly enough, there's another dynamic that could be perceived as a one-sided queer crush between another character and that same male (and possibly asexual) character.


Le Trailer



This is a teaser clip from when the show was being filmed. IMO, the official trailer gives way too much away. I chose to share this video instead cuz it showcases the cinematography and overall LOVEY-DOVEY (but in an an ADULT WAY) vibes.

Dugga Dugga doo!

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The rest of Sunday ended up being kinda fuzzy, mostly due to the warm and having cider during Rogue One so my focus was a lil off. (And then my laptop was all ‘update! There’s an update!’ During dungeons and dodongos which was an annoyance)

In the night I started Code Of Silence which was pretty good. Then I watched the Quatermass Experiment cause I saw it on Amazon prime and I’d seen it mentioned a lot of the last Who boxset. It did start pretty promising (and had someone I recognised from the Marple films) though damn it did lose something as it went on.

I found it funny that the wife of the surviving astronaut complained he was being tested on in the lab, wanted him in the hospital to get treated instead and the almost immediately plotted to get him out of there to take him home. Like girl what are you even doing??

Monday was uneventful for the most part (other than fic reading woo!)ut I did unlock General Grievous on Fortnite, yay! He looks so cool! I also won a code for Shovel Knight dig, which I had a go on last night and I can tell it’s one of those games that’s gonna be tricky as hell to get through but it should be fun to do some runs.

Tuesday I was at the library to cover Joy, but I mostly just read the Seven Dials Mystery some more (and there’s already been another body!). I love that Lord Catterham is back from Chimneys, there’s something so funny about him and how he’s despairing about everything. I might read more after this post

There was an announcement that James Marriott was gonna be doing a signing tour for his album, which made me glad I’d held off getting it. After a scare (the site said tickets were unavailable😭) I did manage to get it so I’ll be off to the Birmingham date, yay! I got the cd, though I might get the vinyl on the day too.

Last night after A LOT of delays, I was finally able to get back to Stranger Things, yippe! Annoyingly I misclicked and so skipped the previously (which would’ve been a helpful reminder but I couldn’t seem to get it back) again it was essentially four plot lines (until two of them came together right at the end).

First the simplest, the boys in the van trying to find Eleven, which felt like it would be more comic relief until Will and Mike’s talk which was so obviously Will saying how he really felt to Mike only substituting Eleven’s name. I just wanted to give him a hug.

Then there was Hopper, Murray and Joyce escaping the Russian prison which had a creepy moment of them in a lab with Demogorgon’s in tubes which gave me vibes of Alien Resurrection (which also had Winona in so surely it was intentional). I did half expect the glasses to smash though.

Then there was Eleven dealing with her past memories and the doctors messing her up and trying to stop her from going. Like her ‘Papa’ (I’ve forgot his name) is such an ass trying to control her, threatening Owen’s, drugging her and then trying to get her to forgive him as he’s dying. I’m glad she didn’t.

Then there’s everyone else back in Hawkins. Damn that sportsball captain is such a dick intimidating Nancy like that. I think she should have hit him with hammers (or shot him since she had a gun).I feel their whole plane is gonna go so wrong though, like they just think they can walk up to Vecna in a trance and kill him. Nah that ain’t happening at all is it?

But also! EDDIE WHY DID YOU CALL STEVE BIG BOY? Like he is so absolutely blatant about wanting him damn. I love that for him though.

I do wanna see what happens (though how everyone is gonna get back to Hawkins to be of any use feels doubtful!) so I hope I’ll get to see it the next few days. The only issue is the length of the finale is over 2 hours so my focus has to be good for it. (So it might be Thursday or a Friday)

Today we went down the road to pick mum’s meds up. I had just hoped to go slow to make it quick but no, mum wanted to go to cause Sainsburys clothes had a sale on which… ugh ended up being so annoying. At least I got some cheap things and the Lego Star Wars magazine I was hoping to get and mum’s friend was there and offered us a ride home.

When we got back the new Doctor Who magazine was here, which came with a free book of Ghe Wheel In Soace which I might have to read cause the ep hasn’t been released cause it’s missing. I just read the preview of the finale eps which didn’t reveal much (there’s not even a cast list!) but the synopsis is what I’ve seen people theorising).

After lunch a storm rolled in with hapeavy rain and thunder, but sadly it didn’t last too long which is a shame.

Tonight’s plan is the new series of The Chelsea Detective, an Agatha Christie thing (with David Suchet!) and then it depends how tired I am.
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