Today I went to Whole Foods
Oct. 17th, 2015 09:56 pmBecause I urgently wanted some dye-free Maraschino cherries, and I don't know where else to get them.
Outside the store was a guy with his calico on a leash. So I knelt to pet the kitten, and then it occurred to me - was this guy homeless? Probably. I mean, there aren't many reasons to sit on the sidewalk with a kitten in the city. But he had no sign, and he hadn't said anything, which left me in the awkward position of having to *ask*. I mean, you can't pet a panhandler's cat and not give him any money, right? And I get that giving to panhandlers is not an efficient form of charity, and that charity is no substitute for a real social safety net, but... you can't pet a homeless guy's cat and not give them money if they need it.
I'm still not sure if outright asking was the appropriate etiquette, though. (But I'm pretty sure it would have been a greater faux pas to not ask. I mean, once you actually interact with somebody and their pet, you have to help them out if needed, right? Oh, I'm definitely overthinking this one.)
(Edit: And for the record, he said yes he did need help, so I gave him some cash. Not much, but I didn't have much, and the social contract surely doesn't require a large fee for petting somebody's kitten.)
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Outside the store was a guy with his calico on a leash. So I knelt to pet the kitten, and then it occurred to me - was this guy homeless? Probably. I mean, there aren't many reasons to sit on the sidewalk with a kitten in the city. But he had no sign, and he hadn't said anything, which left me in the awkward position of having to *ask*. I mean, you can't pet a panhandler's cat and not give him any money, right? And I get that giving to panhandlers is not an efficient form of charity, and that charity is no substitute for a real social safety net, but... you can't pet a homeless guy's cat and not give them money if they need it.
I'm still not sure if outright asking was the appropriate etiquette, though. (But I'm pretty sure it would have been a greater faux pas to not ask. I mean, once you actually interact with somebody and their pet, you have to help them out if needed, right? Oh, I'm definitely overthinking this one.)
(Edit: And for the record, he said yes he did need help, so I gave him some cash. Not much, but I didn't have much, and the social contract surely doesn't require a large fee for petting somebody's kitten.)
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