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Today, we went out to eat.
Sep. 14th, 2007 07:39 pm
And after we had eaten, the waiter came up to me, called my by name (wrong name, too - I really disliked being called Constance back then, but I suppose that's beside the point) and apologized for being "an asshole" to me back in junior high. And I guess he was, because Jenn talked to him later and apparently he really felt bad, remembered making me cry, all this.
I have no idea who the fuck he is. I felt kinda bad about that, but maybe it's better I have no idea...?
At any rate, even if I remembered, I'd forgive him. My theory right now is that kids that age are inherantly stupid, no matter how bright they may be, and so they do stupid things. With that in mind, it's pointless to hold grudges (no matter how deserved) against people once they've grown up, unless they don't, in fact, grow up.
The whole experience was vaguely uncomfortable, and I recommend that if any old bullies of mine are reading this entry that they apologize via anonymous comment rather than in person. It'll go over a lot better. Especially if you just weren't all that memorable to me - there was a lot of that going around for a while, and they all just sort of blur together in my mind.
(And now this is going to be in my head all week, just "Who was that aproned man?", I just know it. Really annoying, that'll be, but if makes him feel better and he meant well, I can't very well blame him for it, can I?)
I have no idea who the fuck he is. I felt kinda bad about that, but maybe it's better I have no idea...?
At any rate, even if I remembered, I'd forgive him. My theory right now is that kids that age are inherantly stupid, no matter how bright they may be, and so they do stupid things. With that in mind, it's pointless to hold grudges (no matter how deserved) against people once they've grown up, unless they don't, in fact, grow up.
The whole experience was vaguely uncomfortable, and I recommend that if any old bullies of mine are reading this entry that they apologize via anonymous comment rather than in person. It'll go over a lot better. Especially if you just weren't all that memorable to me - there was a lot of that going around for a while, and they all just sort of blur together in my mind.
(And now this is going to be in my head all week, just "Who was that aproned man?", I just know it. Really annoying, that'll be, but if makes him feel better and he meant well, I can't very well blame him for it, can I?)
