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Pitbull kills boy, there's a lot of pitbull bashing going on... And I agree with Moggy's assessment. There is something very "off" about the mother.
She locks her son in the basement, and then leaves him alone in the house with two mating pit bulls, when she's scared they might harm her son because of the whole sex thing? He's dead, and it's all "Well, typical, he never listened to me"? She says several times in this article that she "has no regrets"?
I admit, I've never been in this position, but are these normal things to say/do? I can deal with the contradictions - she "never saw any violent tendancies" but she was so scared that she locked her kid up, okay. She needs to justify her choices. But... I don't know, the whole thing creeps me out.
She locks her son in the basement, and then leaves him alone in the house with two mating pit bulls, when she's scared they might harm her son because of the whole sex thing? He's dead, and it's all "Well, typical, he never listened to me"? She says several times in this article that she "has no regrets"?
I admit, I've never been in this position, but are these normal things to say/do? I can deal with the contradictions - she "never saw any violent tendancies" but she was so scared that she locked her kid up, okay. She needs to justify her choices. But... I don't know, the whole thing creeps me out.
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And this woman is clearly a bad dog owner. Why does she have an intact male and a breeding female? Twits like this who breed unregistered dogs without genetic screening (to reduce inherited disease or other bloodline problems) are the vast part of our problem with dog attacks. (Add to that the large number of people who refuse to get their dogs neutered or spayed because they sexually identify with their pet's intact state. Excuse me, but can't you be man or woman enough to realize that you are not your dog?) Who doesn't restrain and separate two breeding dogs (crates? kennels? anything?) or at least take underage children with them when they leave the house where said dogs are?
This woman has demonstrated that she is responsible enough to be neither a petowner nor a parent. She ought to be prosecuted for criminal neglect, IMHO.
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Pit bulls get a bad rap. They're loving, sweet, intelligent, affectionate dogs. AND CUDDLY TOO, their fur is really soft. ;)
And no, I don't think the woman is acting "normally", but she doesn't seem to act that way *ever*, so...
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There's some people out there I just don't understand.
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Add on that my own pitbull is a WUSS. a weenie, even.
also: WTF. Identify with thier dog's intact state? o_O messed up.
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The only pitbull I knew was sweet, but she would sometimes lash out. She was found, abandoned, and we think she was abused. It was alright, she never attacked anyone dangerously - she just would sometimes react badly when startled or perhaps when something triggered a bad memory, then she'd feel very bad about it. Mainly, she'd just sometimes freak out and scare people. We kept her, but we never let her around children. There's no reason to confiscate a dog unless the owner is being irresponsible. And every adult who was near the dog was able to give informed consent.
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In any case, I'd never want a pit bull or Rottweiler, because I don't think they're laid-back enough, just like I'd never want a Dalmatian or a husky or a Bernese Mountain Dog because they need so much exercise, and I'd never want a Chihuahua because they're so high-strung and hyperactive. But that's certainly not the dog's fault—it's that I don't have the time or the energy to devote to training/exercising such a dog.
In any case, my point is that I think it's both the dog and the owner. It's not the dog's fault, but the dog is certainly a contributing factor. Any dog can be well-trained and well-behaved given an owner willing to put in the effort, but then again some dogs need more or less training than others (which of course varies within a breed, but also from breed to breed). This woman should never have been allowed to have a pit bull, but if she'd had a standard poodle or a labrador or something, and raised it in the exact same (obviously less-than-ideal) way, the outcome probably would have been different. (On average. I'm sure some labs/poodles would turn violent given the same circumstances, and some pit bulls wouldn't, but on average.)
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The paper was wrong too, about the 'mixed feelings of pitbull owners'. I say bullshit. They're a breed, that's all.
I wouldn't mind having one, other than honestly I don't think they're all that cute.
Why couldn't the kid play outside? WHY DIDNT SHE SPAY/NEUTER HER DOGS? If they were in heat and that was a problem, why weren't they crated?
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If I had the time to put into training and obedience classes, I wouldn't mind having one, though I don't find them that cute either and honestly I prefer big dogs.
I hope my comments weren't misconstrued as blaming the dogs, because I certainly don't.
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Bah, who knows.
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As they say in the article, she wanted puppies. So on top of being an irresponsible parent, and an irresponsible dog owner, she wanted to be an irresponsible breeder. You want fucking puppies, go out to the shelter and adopt some puppies.
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I KNOW! WAUGH.
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That makes no sense at all, when my sister died my Mum beat herself up about it. In fact 'that day' would be the one day you regret the most. People grieve in different ways but I don't think it's possible to not regret the day your child died. Sorry. She's either putting on a brave face, or is an idiot.
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And this woman is clearly a bad dog owner. Why does she have an intact male and a breeding female? Twits like this who breed unregistered dogs without genetic screening (to reduce inherited disease or other bloodline problems) are the vast part of our problem with dog attacks. (Add to that the large number of people who refuse to get their dogs neutered or spayed because they sexually identify with their pet's intact state. Excuse me, but can't you be man or woman enough to realize that you are not your dog?) Who doesn't restrain and separate two breeding dogs (crates? kennels? anything?) or at least take underage children with them when they leave the house where said dogs are?
This woman has demonstrated that she is responsible enough to be neither a petowner nor a parent. She ought to be prosecuted for criminal neglect, IMHO.
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Pit bulls get a bad rap. They're loving, sweet, intelligent, affectionate dogs. AND CUDDLY TOO, their fur is really soft. ;)
And no, I don't think the woman is acting "normally", but she doesn't seem to act that way *ever*, so...
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There's some people out there I just don't understand.
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Add on that my own pitbull is a WUSS. a weenie, even.
also: WTF. Identify with thier dog's intact state? o_O messed up.
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The only pitbull I knew was sweet, but she would sometimes lash out. She was found, abandoned, and we think she was abused. It was alright, she never attacked anyone dangerously - she just would sometimes react badly when startled or perhaps when something triggered a bad memory, then she'd feel very bad about it. Mainly, she'd just sometimes freak out and scare people. We kept her, but we never let her around children. There's no reason to confiscate a dog unless the owner is being irresponsible. And every adult who was near the dog was able to give informed consent.
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In any case, I'd never want a pit bull or Rottweiler, because I don't think they're laid-back enough, just like I'd never want a Dalmatian or a husky or a Bernese Mountain Dog because they need so much exercise, and I'd never want a Chihuahua because they're so high-strung and hyperactive. But that's certainly not the dog's fault—it's that I don't have the time or the energy to devote to training/exercising such a dog.
In any case, my point is that I think it's both the dog and the owner. It's not the dog's fault, but the dog is certainly a contributing factor. Any dog can be well-trained and well-behaved given an owner willing to put in the effort, but then again some dogs need more or less training than others (which of course varies within a breed, but also from breed to breed). This woman should never have been allowed to have a pit bull, but if she'd had a standard poodle or a labrador or something, and raised it in the exact same (obviously less-than-ideal) way, the outcome probably would have been different. (On average. I'm sure some labs/poodles would turn violent given the same circumstances, and some pit bulls wouldn't, but on average.)
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The paper was wrong too, about the 'mixed feelings of pitbull owners'. I say bullshit. They're a breed, that's all.
I wouldn't mind having one, other than honestly I don't think they're all that cute.
Why couldn't the kid play outside? WHY DIDNT SHE SPAY/NEUTER HER DOGS? If they were in heat and that was a problem, why weren't they crated?
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If I had the time to put into training and obedience classes, I wouldn't mind having one, though I don't find them that cute either and honestly I prefer big dogs.
I hope my comments weren't misconstrued as blaming the dogs, because I certainly don't.
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Bah, who knows.
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As they say in the article, she wanted puppies. So on top of being an irresponsible parent, and an irresponsible dog owner, she wanted to be an irresponsible breeder. You want fucking puppies, go out to the shelter and adopt some puppies.
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I KNOW! WAUGH.
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That makes no sense at all, when my sister died my Mum beat herself up about it. In fact 'that day' would be the one day you regret the most. People grieve in different ways but I don't think it's possible to not regret the day your child died. Sorry. She's either putting on a brave face, or is an idiot.