Buddy, the way you phrased your request is massively offensive

[conuly]

And I'm trying to help you fix that, so help me help you.

(Gosh I hope they take this advice in the spirit in which it was given.)

Comments

[lilysea]

I think he might be thinking of The Crying Game

but ye gods the transphobia coming off that post :(

[tielan]

Yes, I read that and thought The Crying Game, too. But, uh, yes, the phrasing of the request was...wow.

Hopefully they take the advice as intended, and the situation is just awkwardly not-knowing-how-to-phrase-it rather than out-and-out transphobia.

[tamsin]

Go you for answering so calmly!

[med_cat]

You phrased the advice very well. I hope this person remembers these things in the future.

[minoanmiss]

This! *awards you a star*

[conuly]

Thanks, it’s practice.

[med_cat]

And skill :) (honed by practice)

[gwydion]

That question *headdesk*

[pushkin666]

Wow. There is some serious transphobia going on there, and kudos to you for answering them so calmly and trying to help them, but that kind of transphobia is so common these days :(