Well, you do what you gotta do. (And if they're fronting the money for something actually of value, I wouldn't turn it down either.)

LOL, my mother actually went off on her coworkers one year when somebody tried to fundraise for them. "Why should I support an organization that thinks I should not have wanted my second daughter!?" (That'd be me.)

Sadly, they've managed to successfully scrub most references to Autism Every Day from the internet, so it's hard to convince people nowadays that yes, they really produced that and yes, afterwards they really said that all parents of autistics secretly want their kids dead.