I've got super-severe ADHD. My husband has had to make a number of accomodations for my different processing, like dealing with the fact that I cannot keep a secret if my life depends on it, that he has to make sure that he actually has my attention before talking to me, and that I often can't deal with overwhelmingly complex tasks.

Our relationship has lasted as long as it has because he doesn't ask me to be someone I'm not.